oh. But seriously though... would you dump a girl who wanted to cuddle you? O_O even if it was just for a bit...
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The cuddle isn't really the problem here. It's nice. But I consider it much more intimate than sex, when feelings are in the game. I don't mind cuddling someone who isn't really serious about me. But that type of affectionate cuddling, that is out of question if I don't feel prepared for it. Not only cuddles, but any kind of affection in the first place. Remember, I don't want to lead on anyone for now.