but you don't have to be mad at Lin, she seemed really happy and showing off in a nice way ^-^
...*sighs* Well, you already know the story, so might as well know my reasoning as to why I don't like sharing it. Not like there's gonna be any more damage done anyway.
Look. First off, I'm not mad at Lin. We're at a disagreement, which is something normal to happen whenever you put two people together and tell them to talk. Lin and I are not an exception. So don't worry, I won't dump her. XD I'm just a tad bit angry with her, is all. We're good talkers, so we're gonna sort it out tomorrow, maybe have some make up sex and it's all gonna be good.
Now, the reason why I don't like it if she shares this story without asking me and without even telling me (or even at all, because I mostly don't want her to) is because...well, just be perfectly honest for a moment: it sounds like the plot of some cheap Hollywood movie, right? And the thing is that this is exactly what people think. If this was just about me or just about her, then I wouldn't care if people think the whole thing is just something we made up to feel special or whatever. I mean, I don't owe anyone an explanation or justification and neither does Lin, plus I love her for reasons that go far beyond the fact that she's helped me help a friend once. No, my main issue here is that this whole ordeal is first and foremost Vlad's story. The story of a young boy, who had went through enough suffering at the hand's of his own father that he had considered killing himself. That is the part where I get defensive. Because I've made experiences when Lin and me told this story and people actually laughed about it, gave us mock applause and then went "Ok. And now the real story, please." And I just lose my shit every time this happens, because they're basically saying that everything Vlad went through, every single tear and drop of blood he wasted on his pathetic excuse of a father, is just made-up shit some dykes came up with to feel special. And that's not what this is about. The story how we met is basically the story of a teenage boy, who was already so done with life that he'd considered ending it. That I ended up meeting the woman I see my future in isn't what this is all about. Our story starts much later. And that's why I usually just say that we first met while helping out a friend of mine and I leave it at that. Because I love how she wants to show off what she thinks is positive about me, but I've had it with people disrespecting Vlad, so I tend to prevent that from happening at all by simply not elaborating on his part of the story.
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