First off: This should have the Rape tag.
Second: There shouldn't be blood even in the first time.
Third: Do people actually STILL think that the first time is supposed to hurt?? This has been debunked like 10,000 times wtf.
People need to chill about the 'too much side character' biz. I get it. You want yuri. But also?? its just a small comic releif manga w/ added bonus of gays??? Laugh a litte?? Just enjoy the story and be patient.
So is the general concincus that she (the main protagonist) is demiromantic? I imagine that would allow for a romance in the work, after some relationship build up, but also stay true to the fact that she never loved someone/had a crush on someone in the first place when there were sudden confessions right?
And the guy seems to be aromantic. As in he doesn't want or feel the need to be in a romantic relationship with someone.
Then again im not sure if a romance manga would touch into the ace umbrella.