Chill guys, its a time-travel fantasy. Who didn't think about going back in time and trying again for love? There is nothing creepy here, just pure love. And if you call others pedo/creeps, don't be surprised by some backlash. Cheers!
Calling a character in a story a pedo is not an attack on anyone, so feeling defensive and backlashing against that makes me thing you identify with said character or said character's action which, sorry, is creepy. Yeah, it is a story, it is fine, I don't think no body here was making any moralizing about the contents of the story. All it happen was someone called a fictional character a pedo which, I need to stress, is a normal reading of the events of the story. There are in story attenuating factors, of course, but the character is still an adult woman creeping on a teenage girl. You shouldn't feel defensive if someone points this very obvious fact.
And, I need to stress, the actual defense is, in itself really fucking creepy. Like, "actual excuse pedophiles make" levels of creepy. If someone calls one character a pedo for being interested in a teenage the defense "but she is hot though" is a very creepy defense. I sorry for repeating myself, but I think this is the key element that is being ignored: the backlash for someone calling Nanasawa a pedo wasn't "oh, but it is an unrealistic situation, she is technically younger and still have the memories for that", it was "being attracted to a woman who looks like this is not pedo" and when it is pointed out that the character in question is a "girl", not a "woman", the response is "she went through puberty already". This is literal pedophilia apologia. Don't defend that.
Can we stop misusing the word pedo? Pedo is about being attracted to completely pre-pubescent children. Seto is very much NOT that.
No it isn't. That is one narrow and valid definition of the word, but it is not exclusive nor is the most popular. You can complain people use imprecise terms a lot with muddle discussion, but that is a semantic definition, it is not how most people use these terms. At any rate, being a predator isn't morally particularly better so it just feels like deflection to focus on said narrow definition instead of actually engaging with the argument.
A more precise use of the word is that Nanasawa is an ebophile and a predator, which is very creepy but easily to ignore in such a fantastic story. But, again, pointing out the target of her affection is post pubescent is not actually a strong defensive, it just reflects poorly on you and what you think it is acceptable.
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