I get that this may be Japanese culture but- 33 AINT EVEN THAT OLD. I'm still pretty young myself and will joke around saying "0mG 30 iS sOooo oLd~ I lOvE AnciEnt ArtifaCts~". But the amount of times I've seen people in Manga who're 28-34 consider themselves "old" is just so odd to me lmao
I have a feeling that, saying 33 is old , presumably about the age of having kids.
Because I read somewhere, and there's a kind reader pointed out that basically after 35, you're at high risk of having babies.
And so, that makes me conclude that when they talk about 33-35 is old, they meant 'old to have babies'.
Just my two cents though.
p.s. Takagai san is considerate.
She knows that Shiina san is uncomfortable to stay in the same room with a person who just confessed to her, therefore decided to stay in a different hotel instead.
That is so sweet and nice of her.
And about relationship, my mindset is pretty much Takagai san (though I'm in my mid 30s too...)
but I never once thought about probing into the mindset of a woman who is really in her 30s (not mine, because my brain is a different thing)
So knowing how Shiina san reacts and how she thinks is refreshing to me.
It makes me realize
"Oh.. so that is what they think about. When they talk about relationship, they are serious, very serious about it."
It seems that to them, once a person is in 30s, the relationship needs to be serious, therefore marriage interview about a person's wealth , body health, etc. Then there is also the children thing.
Oh, is that the reason why when they decided to get into a relationship, and wanted to know if the person they are dating with isn't going to waste their time, they can totally go for the sex route in their first date to confirm if the person's intention is true or not?
Then it starts to make sense to me now when a woman found another woman attractive and decided to confess to be together, they don't take things slowly. They could confess on day 1, then if they clicked after confirmation, could even get married on second or third day..
It starts to make sense to me when I watched real wlw vloggings and they talked about their love life experiences. One confessed that she might know her wife (they are married) for some time, but got serious and confessed, had their first date, and decided to marry each other on their third day.
Thanks to the mangaka of this series, and also this story, it really brings me a whole new insight of how a 30 year-old lady thinks in terms of relationship, and how it leads to marriage and kids.
Interesting.. definitely a different perspective about relationship.
Oh and one more!
May I assume that, if a man gets involved with a relationship of two women, one who is around 29 reaching her 30, and another is around her early 20s, he will end up choosing marrying the younger one?
Oh.. tears for the last page (T.T )...
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