One of the primary aspects of heteronormativity is the adherence to gender roles and the traditional gender roles within a heterosexual relationship are the man as dominant provider/protector and the woman as a submissive dependant. There are massive religions devoted to propping up this model. Kase's behaviour and how Yamada is portrayed is reflective of this model imposed onto a WLW relationship. Learn about concepts before you lazily dismiss someone elses completely accurate representation of them.
"If you don't dress more conservatively you'll be harassed by men" is like the go to justification men use to shame women into wearing what they want them to. It ain't a good look regardless of motive and certainly if that motive is just your own comfort.
I suppose if you really want to go the whole 10 yards you can see it that way.
Antiquated gender roles have nothing to do with modern heterosexuality and pretending that such relationships these days have anything to do with control and the like is simply idiotic, which is why the term heteronormativity is terribly insufficient in the first place. The usual intention of using heteronormativity is to address that society views hetero relationships and all that it involves as the standard. The way you use it here is just another ideological buzzword. Just say gender roles if you wanna harp on gender roles.
Sure, if this was a serious demand Kase made or if it was actually enforced in any way, it would be a pretty bad look. But as we know, Yamada does what she wants and Kase will be annoyed and try to be protective, but not actually stop her. This was an embarrassed response to feeling aroused, not a rule she set up and Yamada didn't just cave in either.
It's not just that Cryssoberyl's comment was entirely correct to begin with. It doesn't take a genius to understand the clear link between 'control' and 'heteronormativity', since the most heteronormative relationship, according to creepy dudes, is one where a man controls a woman. Where the woman is innocent and pure and clueless and pretty much a child, while the dude is the adult that holds all the cards, and has to "protect" said woman from herself.
Uhuh. If you say so lmao
You live in the past and that's why you make such terribly backwards assumptions. If that is just how creepy dudes see a heteronormative relationship, doesn't that mean you are a creepy dude, because you also think that's how that term is supposed to be interpreted?
In the first place those are not just hetero traits, they are traits that appear in any relationship across the board, hetero, gay or lesbian. Whether it's good or bad, many of these things are just natural human behaviour to a certain extent.This goes back to the whole power dynamics talk. One partner will often be more dominant than the other and that is not at all related to hetero thinking.
As you no doubt will somehow manage to get the wrong idea, as your type usually does, let me say ahead of time: No I do not support any of those things. I don't like heteronormativity or think that Kase is doing the right thing. Those are two different matters however.
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