@feihong, great post
I may honestly enjoy analytical posts more than the media itself
I know things(any new thing no matter how small or big) looks sacry before trying
And doing it once is a big step and makes you capable of doing something like that again
Or so it seems to me
But the people who say, "she should leave him, she should elope" or anything similar in this or any other manga, would they just make such decisions in a snap, regardless of how correct it is, do people really make such decisions in a beat?
I'm a indecisive person, who may or may not have slight anxiety issues so making such decisions are such a big hurdle that acting in this situation would be a nightmare of different sorts