Also, you're being pretty casual about hurting at least one party involved in all of this and that feels extra cruel in a situation where everyone's amenable to poly.
I don't get what you mean. There's plenty of unrequited love out there, and it's cruel. Life is often cruel. For Rin's case, she had two people that requited her love. That's extremely lucky. Giving one of the relationships a shot might not be so bad. As far as just wanting to be friends with both of them, but one of them says they couldn't, that's just how it goes.
Furthermore, because Rin is polyamory and a lot of people aren't, the people who she can't fully love end up getting hurt. Mostly because, like at the very beginning of this manga, It's hard for some people to share the person they love most with someone else.
Lilliwyt
November 12, 2020 10:53PM
Did you think this would productively contribute to the discussion?
Tbf both fo your contributions didn't exactly contribute that much.
who constantly hear dumb-ass unsolicited opinions like this one from strangers with no skin in the game.
Hey now, just because you don't use skins doesn't mean you don't know anything. That's a rude way to judge peoples.
^Agree with everything said here. Yes about my comment too. Also who said I wanted a discussion about my opinion? I just wanted to state it.
As far as what linter is saying, I am surprised anyone read it. I'm not going to. A big block of text, especially when you skim it and you see that they're triggered and calling people names, is "not very fun" to read, to use linter's small amount of text I read.
bruh relationships aren't supposed to be draining, they are supposed to be fulfilling, het detected.
Well you would be incorrect because I am not heterosexual. I am queer. Unfortunately, a lot of my relationships so far have been heterosexual even though I've not wanted them to be. Some of us aren't so lucky.
Some of us are fat, and have a hard time even just getting along with people casually socially, so getting along with someone romantically is something I'm working on. Let alone having just what, 3.5% of the human population of women in America to choose from? At least I think I've heard that 7% of the US population is gay. I'm guessing half of that percent is gay men. Haven't looked it up.
Hate was a strong word. My bad. It's actually just what I don't understand about a polyamory relationships. And no, it's not how I feel just cuz everybody got mad at me saying hate. I'm sure none of you will believe me, but nothing I can do about that.
Some other comments were saying I was projecting that relationships are draining. You could be right about that.
I'm not going to say anyone's opinion is wrong. It's completely fine to me that you have an opinion. I'm sorry I triggered you or made you blow up or whatever.
However, I'm not going to pretend that reading some of the comments wasn't hurtful either. It does hurt to get gained up on just because your opinion may not be the most socially acceptable one. We are all in different places of understanding. I'm not saying this for an apology, I'm just stating that how some of the words made me feel.
(Note: you can probably not read this section. It's a self-indulgent anecdote elaborating on the last paragraph's point.)
I went to a local LGBT support group. It was a place to share our feelings about being gay. I shared my feelings about being gay and that I have a hard time liking and accepting myself for it. I would rather be heterosexual just because it would make life a little bit easier on me, especially growing up in a staunch Christian household.
Somehow, apparently, it's a threat to other people that I feel that way about being gay. It's like they're saying that I'm saying that it's wrong for other people to accept their gayness. I'm not, and the only reason I shared is because I was hoping I wasn't alone in feeling this way, but I guess I am. Apparently we're all just supposed to be extremely happy that we're gay and completely accepting of it. And if you think differently when you're among other LGBT, you better just keep it to yourself.
I'm anonymous and on the internet though so I'm going to say what I am going to say. Because sometimes it just sucks to keep it to yourself whether people like to hear it or not.
If you still think I'm a piece of shit, fine. I would probably agree with you. Yeah it sucks for me and for everyone around me. But it's not easy to change. I'm working on it.
Maybe there's a way to block me so you never have to see what I have to say ever again?
