I'm not shutting people down, I'm literally talking about NOT telling others what to think.
^true, you weren't. maybe people chose to interpret your words differently because they perceived your intentions as unkind, or something, but I didn't get that vibe.
for what it's worth (could be nothing, for all I know) before chapter 32 (the final chapter) is released the author did reply on their social to some reader gushing over femboys saying:
“ありがとうございます!今後も頑張ります!
また男の娘を描く機会があれば見つけてください…!”
[google translated (feel free to correct any errors)]
“Thank you! I'll keep doing my best!
If I ever have another opportunity to draw a cross-dressing boy, please look for me...“
so it seems like the author’s intent could be that it’s mostly just a manga about crossdressing “femboys”, maybe even people who are secure in their assigned gender at birth but do enjoy crossdressing as a hobby. (I seem to get the vibe that many people don’t believe this can happen IRL and more often than not they’d just be trans women repressing but I digress.) or maybe the author’s just being kind to the reader who did use the word “男の娘” first.
at the end of the day though as a reader you are of course welcome to interpret from the story ANYTHING you’d like, even if it’s completely different from what the author has intended. but allowing each other to have differing interpretations without lashing out, ESPECIALLY when those interpretations did not come from malice, over fictional characters, is probably for the best.