Wow. I didn't think someone as cruel as Elle actually existed =.=
Sometimes, is necessary to be firm and yes, cruel, for the best.
I used to be in touch with an ex who I loved too much and for a time I believed we could work things out and get back together. When she realized that, she said straight to my face that while I was a very dear friend to her, she would never date me again.
That hurt, a LOT. But it was for the best.