I do kind of want to push back against the idea that bringing up queer identity makes a work less fluffy or about the characters being in love. I don't think it's what you're intending to say, but I do feel like that edges toward the idea that queer love is somehow less "pure" or fluffy if you use the L-word to describe the characters, and that it's somehow cleaner to just leave things undefined.
I think they just assumed you were discussing series that make sexual identity part of the plot's central focus or part of some kind of drama.
My experience is similar to yours. Most Korean/Chinese series I've read (no matter how fluffy) acknowledge the characters' identity in common/natural and direct ways. I've rarely had these issues with non-manga series. Maybe it's just the ones I choose to read.
Yeah I'm not saying queer identity makes a work less fluffy at all. I'm going off Gellydog specifically mentioning how fluffier series typically don't go into identity. I thought Gellydog was saying specifically that series such as Whispering You A Love Song are objectively bad because they're just fluff and nothing else. I do think queer identity and exploration aren't mutually exclusive with fluffy at all and I had less than 0 intent of saying that, I only thought the conversation was that fluffy series tend to not have those elements and there for are bad by default. So I was trying and I guessing failing to say that I think this kind of fluffy series and series that have more of a focus on queer identity are both valid. I think while Whispering You a Love Song doesn't explore queer identity it's still a generally good series about these girls that are in love with each other, and from what I can tell I'm one of the few on Dynasty that still enjoys the series, which is fine.
I agree, but I'm also not sure what you're meaning here. Are you saying that pushing for representation in media isn't part of pushing for acceptance in real life? Because I'd disagree strongly with that.
I'm not saying that at all. I'm saying both series with more of a focus on lesbian identity and series such as Whispering You a Love Song that are focused purely on the romance and not the identity are both valid. Even a work like this I think helps normalize same sex relationships. Which even if people think Whispering You a Love Song is a completely worthless series because it doesn't focus on identity, as long as fans of the series are also pushing for real life acceptance that's ultimately the most important thing. I do think this series and others like it have value.