Should I ask any men in the thread right now?
I'll go ahead and tell you right now, as a cis male all of my life, I haven't personally fantasized about wanting to be a woman, much less have such a thing be a common occurrence. I've considered it as a hypothetical in conversation or when trying to be empathetic about an issue, but it's never been a fantasy of mine.
I have to varying extent, but generally restricted to physical-sexual aspects moreso than the societal aspects of gender. It also doesn't come from a place of dissatisfaction with who and what I am (which is why I don't see this as in and of itself indicative of "not being quite so cis"), but rather from a place of curiosity, a vain wish to share in an experience closed off to me.
I can also tell you that my wife, who happens to be a fujoshi, is the same in that regard (though obviously f->m in her case).
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