Dynasty Scans
joined Oct 8, 2010
I too am on team Seju, I like her as a character. I think she has more to offer Sumin then Sungji ever will, even when certain plot details are revealed in later chapters.
First of all, they've been together since high-school. It's also strongly implied that Sumin got promoted/got to where she is now with a bit of help from Seju. She also genuinely cares about Sumin and if you've read the chapters, you get the vibe that Seju cares about Sumin a lot more. Sumin acts cold and disinterested and is even cruel towards Seju. I think it's Sumin that's using Seju as a sexual outlet rather than the other way around. Yet Seju still stays and has done so for more than 10 years. That says something.
I have nothing against Sungji, she's cute, nice innocent. I even called her a beautiful cinnamon roll and all but she doesn't hold a candle to Seju's devotion in my opinion. I don't think what Seju has already offered and what she will be willing to offer is worth throwing away even if there are a few unfortunate mistakes.
on the topic of chapter 11 and the cheating, I said something before and I firmly stand by it. I think people treat cheaters even worse than criminals these days. At least for criminals people still believe in rehabilitation. Cheaters aren't even afforded that. 'Once a cheat, always a cheater', a rather cruel and unforgiving mindset. Yes Seju made a mistake but it seems like a one-off thing unlike Sumin who has had multiple relationships.
I'm not saying you should always forgive cheaters but still, we don't know the full circumstances behind it so it's too soon to pass judgement. In addition to that, from what we've seen so far, Sumin was emotionally (and most likely but less importantly) and physically unavailable for over a month.
She also threw away their plans that must've taken quite a while to plan out. She also seemed to be throwing their relationship into the bin with the whole ring affair. Arguably both sides overreacted a little but the point still stands
That coupled with the enormous guilt Seju must've felt because Sumin's parents' death was indirectly caused by her. Add some alcohol and angst to the mix and can you really not sympathise? I guess some people won't because "het-shit" or whatever but still, I hope Seju and Sumin can still work things out unless there's a much more heinous backstory behind the cheating that convinces me to switch completely to Team Sungji