Yuzu did completely the right thing and was rewarded, as she should've been, with the love, understanding, and support of the adults in her life. Anyone attacking her for needing and seeking that is grievously misguided.
Yes, imagine some of us having a notion about privacy, horrendous. In theory, she could have turned to her parents without naming Mei, although she would not have been able to present all the aspects and problems of their relationship in that case. You can twist and turn it every way you want with those high-sounding phrases, but outing someone to their immediate family without their knowledge and consent is never justified, and she is not that young of a kid for the label to shield her.
As for Mei making unilateral decisions, that much is true, but the last such decision she made was also to break up with Yuzu. This is no longer the game which we viewed previously, where Yuzu was mostly combating Mei's outwardly cold personality. Now, Mei has broken up with her under no unclear terms, and for Yuzu to come charging regardless is not something I can be comfortable with, since I know without a shred of a doubt I would personally hate it if anyone did the same to me. Mei's reasons for the breakup may be flawed, and Yuzu obviously thinks so too, but last I heard, one does not need to have a logically consistent and well argued rationale for breaking up with someone.
Edit: And I overlooked it, but lmao, "different, less mainstream choices in life". Really sets a different tone to the whole abandoned his own child thing he did, does it not. Why, it makes him sound like a swell guy, breaking the chains of his class, going on a quest to find himself. That is something I have noticed a lot of people have done with Shou, since he was introduced. I guess most readers are just enthralled by the whole "do your own thing, do not let the tradition dictate you" spin, so they forget he turned his back on a primary school aged child in the process. We have already gone over his decisions several times in this thread, and others have said it better than I did, so I will simply limit myself to stating he would not win any father of the year awards. Because he is a fucking horrible parent. Sure, he is a nice guy, but nice people can still completely fail at parenting, and when you literally abandon your own child, you have fucking failed massively.
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