I just heard from my mom that my sister just had another painful surgery. It got me worried a lot.

What did your sister get surgery for?

Both of her kidneys are no longer good. She is doing dialysis to keep her ok until she gets a new kidney. I'm worried a lot about her but just don't know what to do. That is why love sucks. Hahah.

How frequent is the dialysis?
Im terribly sorry to hear this... hugs

Three days a week. Each day lasts about 4 to 5 hours. Yeah it is really suck. But when i see her eat this and that it gets me angry at her too. I sort of want her to eat only veggies hahaha. But she has refused.

Usually patient needs blood tranfusion everytime she has dialysis... and yes the food choice is very limited... how old is yr sister?

Rainy

Guten Murgen :>

Hahahaa... good morning Kittokatto... i dont know u also speak Germany

I can speak simple German words since I have relatives back in Germany and they kinda taught me a bit ;)

Whoaaa thats great...
How do they say butt massage in Germany?

I just heard from my mom that my sister just had another painful surgery. It got me worried a lot.

What did your sister get surgery for?

Both of her kidneys are no longer good. She is doing dialysis to keep her ok until she gets a new kidney. I'm worried a lot about her but just don't know what to do. That is why love sucks. Hahah.

How frequent is the dialysis?
Im terribly sorry to hear this... hugs

Three days a week. Each day lasts about 4 to 5 hours. Yeah it is really suck. But when i see her eat this and that it gets me angry at her too. I sort of want her to eat only veggies hahaha. But she has refused.

Usually patient needs blood tranfusion everytime she has dialysis... and yes the food choice is very limited... how old is yr sister?

Hahaha i don't really remember her age. Lol. Maybe two years younger than me?

I'm worried a lot about her but just don't know what to do.

Just try to be there for her. Talk to her about everyday stuff, treat her like everything's normal. I think most chronically sick people really don't like it when you tiptoe around them like they could break any moment. And trust the doctors that they're doing their best. :-)

Yeah she sort of said that to me. She doesn't want to live like she's gonna die soon. It's tough being the one worried since she wants to live normal.

Hahaha i don't really remember her age. Lol. Maybe two years younger than me?

Lmao... how many siblings d you hv that u dont remember yr sister age?

Rainy

Guten Murgen :>

Hahahaa... good morning Kittokatto... i dont know u also speak Germany

I can speak simple German words since I have relatives back in Germany and they kinda taught me a bit ;)

Whoaaa thats great...
How do they say butt massage in Germany?

Pfft.
Rainy, you are so lucky I am not drinking my coffee right now. If I have, I might've spit it or something and if that happens, I'll hunt you down. XD
But no, I don't know how they say butt massage in German language. Like I said, only simple words they taught me xD

Lin
How do you say butt massage in German? ^^

Sth like po massage?

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Butt massage would either be "Arschmassage" (kinda rude) or "Pomassage" (cute / kid's talk) in German. xD I don't think there's a neutral term for it. "Hinternmassage" maybe? Although that sounds sort of ridiculous.

Lin
How do you say butt massage in German? ^^

Lmao Rainy you really are all about that butt massage XD

Good morning!! ^.^

Hahaha i don't really remember her age. Lol. Maybe two years younger than me?

Lmao... how many siblings d you hv that u dont remember yr sister age?

7 of us. I'm the oldest. I don't remember anyone's age. I almost don't remember mine. So...

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Lin
How do you say butt massage in German? ^^

Lmao Rainy you really are all about that butt massage XD

Good morning!! ^.^

Morning, Llama
U are more sparkling than ever..

Butt massage would either be "Arschmassage" (kinda rude)

Can you also use this term in a sexual manner ?? Lol

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I almost don't remember mine.

Pfft. Excuses. u_u We'll find out soon enough.

Hey there, Llama. ^_^

@Kitkat:
It is a sexual term. xD

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Hahaha i don't really remember her age. Lol. Maybe two years younger than me?

Lmao... how many siblings d you hv that u dont remember yr sister age?

7 of us. I'm the oldest. I don't remember anyone's age. I almost don't remember mine. So...

Wow... big family...
I think u also need to eat more bananas...

I almost don't remember mine.

Pfft. Excuses. u_u We'll find out soon enough.

Hey there, Llama. ^_^

@Kitkat:
It is a sexual term. xD

You said rude though >.>
But oh well hahahahaha
Might as well use it one time. XD

Rainy
Why thank you? Hahaha I guess I feel sparkly XD

Hi Lin! :D

Hahaha i don't really remember her age. Lol. Maybe two years younger than me?

Lmao... how many siblings d you hv that u dont remember yr sister age?

7 of us. I'm the oldest. I don't remember anyone's age. I almost don't remember mine. So...

Wow... big family...
I think u also need to eat more bananas...

I'm not a monkey lol.

@Kitkat:
It is a sexual term. xD

Wow kittokatto
Now u added perverted Germany vocabs xD

Why thank you? Hahaha I guess I feel sparkly XD

The light shone differently when u greeted back then... :D

I'm worried a lot about her but just don't know what to do.

Just try to be there for her. Talk to her about everyday stuff, treat her like everything's normal. I think most chronically sick people really don't like it when you tiptoe around them like they could break any moment. And trust the doctors that they're doing their best. :-)

Yeah she sort of said that to me. She doesn't want to live like she's gonna die soon. It's tough being the one worried since she wants to live normal.

Lin is right, mvl89. Chronically ill people don't really like to be treated like they are about to break. Also, does your sister has someone she can talk about her disease? A lot of patients already told me they felt lonely, because their family and friends wouldn't talk about it, since they felt the need to protect the patient from that kind of pain. It varies from the moment the sick person is living, but they usually do feel lonely.

Also, hello everyone! :)

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@Kitkat:
It is a sexual term. xD

Wow kittokatto
Now u added perverted Germany vocabs xD

Now adding Arschmassage in my vocabs
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@Kitkat
In the German language, most words, which are usually interpreted as rude by people, are either also used as insults or for dirty talk. Over here, if you want to say a woman has a nice butt, you wouldn't say "Sie hat einen hübschen Hintern," which literally means "She has a nice butt," but rather "Sie hat einen geilen Arsch." It's a bit confusing, but basically by being rude in Germany, you either express that you're in a bad mood or that you're horny. xD

I gotta go for a bit. Need to take Jacky for a walk. :-)

Wollen sie arschMassage zu haben, kittokatto?

@Kitkat
In the German language, most words, which are usually interpreted as rude by people, are either also used as insults or for dirty talk. Over here, if you want to say a woman has a nice butt, you wouldn't say "Sie hat einen hübschen Hintern," which literally means "She has a nice butt," but rather "Sie hat einen geilen Arsch."

Did you think of those words when you met Su ?? XD

I gotta go for a bit. Need to take Jacky for a walk. :-)

Aight. I'll see ya latuuuuurrr~~

Hello again, Azai...