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Theres%20nothig%20but%20trash%20here
joined Feb 17, 2013

On the ace topic I would like people to keep in mind she could also just be deeply repressed. A lot of lesbians (myself included) struggle(d) sexually and often considered ourselves possibly asexual or ambivalent to sexual things because we have little to no framework about sexuality and the lesbian experience outside of pornography that's made to titillate men and isn't anywhere near our experiences in reality.

Rica
Theres%20nothig%20but%20trash%20here
joined Feb 17, 2013

So I don't post much but this weird nonsense prompted me to speak...

Namely apparently I'm not a lesbian anymore because I'm "impure" since I was with men when I was younger and didn't understand my sexuality.

That narrative is incredibly damaging to young lesbians trying to figure out their sexuality and you might want to reconsider your baggage with the issue.

I hate non-happy end Yuri as much as the next gay gal but shit like ^^^^^ that is why it took me until I was in my late 20s to realize I was a lesbian.

Rica
Their Story discussion 11 Nov 09:02
Theres%20nothig%20but%20trash%20here
joined Feb 17, 2013

I'm thirding the 'Not everything needs to be drama'. Chillllllll ya'll

In other news however YESSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS I'M SO HAPPY