Most people will not see “dressing as a girl” and think of lesbians, that has never been the caricature for lesbians, most are cis, by default they dress as girls (and the predatory lesbian always use a cis woman sometimes masculine but this depend of the country) that has always be the caricature for trans women, the “dress as a girl to pick up girls” also fit the stereotype that trans women dress like that to deceive. If this fit a phobic, it is transphobic not lesbophobic. (This is not me saying the work is this or that btw)
You're not understanding my point. I'll try to be clearer. The character, Eru, is (or at least self-defines as) a boy who dresses as a girl to pick up girls. "Guy who pretends to be a woman to pick up women" is , indeed, a common transmisogynistic stereotype. However, Eru's crossdressing is not presented in a negative light; if anything, the manga is suggesting that Eru dressing up as a girl to pick up girls is basically fine, and the character is largely framed as sympathetic. Hence, it's not transphobic, precisely because Eru is portrayed positively.
Now, you could argue it's lesbophobic, because the manga is sort of tacitly endorsing a boy pretending to be a girl to pick up girls. However, I think that's pretty ambiguous. If I were to really offer an interpretation, it's notable that Eru has a lot more success getting girls' numbers as a girl than as a guy; normally it would be the reverse, since of course there's far more straight women than lesbians. It seems reasonable to conclude that the real reason is that Eru feels much more comfortable/self-confident as a girl, and it's that charisma that is endearing them to women. Honestly, I suspect the vast majority of girls who gave Eru their number aren't even looking for a date, just a friend, hence why Eru also states they have yet to actually go on a date.
In conclusion, Eru's character is pretty weird and ambiguous and it's unclear what, if any, larger upshot there is to all this. I think it's fair to criticize the manga for not having a clear vision as to what it's doing with its characters. I don't think it's fair to call the manga nothing but nonstop transphobia.
What I mean with “most readers are not trans women and do not care about transmisogyny” is not that one needs to care about transphobic people to enjoy something, if it was for that no one would be able to like anything. The point is that for some this is a reminder on how most view trans fems (most will laugh and don’t see anything bad, even people who are not transphobic) that is why I think SillieHonka comment was like that (though as I said in my response to Zecs, I don’t see she calling anyone transphobic) she was hurt made a angry comment and that’s it. For very specific and personal reasons I hate generalization and “if the shoe fits” but I don’t see any other reason why everyone replied instead of ignoring her. I did that but now I am also here so I am not one to talk lol
Basically what I mean is, everyone will have very different opinions, having arguments is normal, but 4 or 5 posters keep responding to her saying the same thing and like, I think is better to not do that and keep talking about the manga
I'm not going to speculate as to SillieHonoka's motives. I don't think she's a bad person or anything. I just strongly disagree with both her position and the way she argued her position. I think it's fine to express strong disagreements and that is, in fact, what discussion forums are for. I posted because I hadn't seen anyone else make the points I wanted to make.