^I made an account just to say I agree lmao. So u know someone does care. Literally my thoughts every time this top/bottom contest starts cuz many of the arguments are low-key problematic, filled w stigmatization and pre-historical stereotypes. Glad someone voice that out.

I mean the whole reasoning behind pinning down the power-dynamics into this top/bottom trope is shaky af…we exploit fictional characters to serve our own kinky desire. It says more abt the shipper’s sexual preferences than the ship’s. There’s really nothing to prove here. It’s however you want it…The way ppl get frustrated for someone else’s wet dreams cockblocking theirs and try to start a civil war to validate their own fantasies is just…a big waste of energy…