I have to admit too that the page about Ren didn't know what to choose to go for a bathroom is quite depressing..
Usually there will be a third toilet that allows for the disabled or unisex. It's in the middle.
I'm not sure where that COMITIA was meant to be held, but that's not how it works at Tokyo Big Sight – there are women's and men's bathrooms, and that's it. Also, using the bathrooms at Tokyo Big Sight sucks for everybody. The bathrooms are in weird locations, they're not particularly large given the scale of the event, and I've never found one that's accessible that's not a portapotty outside. It is a hope of mine that this will be fixed by the renovations that the complex is going through now. And that they add some of the "family" restrooms that are now ubiquitous in urban train stations. Both unisex accessible bathrooms and family bathrooms are so much more common than they were when I first went to Japan, and they've been a lifesaver for me.
I will say that Ren's struggles in this chapter instantly made them far more relatable to me, as I have had to spend far too much time at Comiket thinking about bathrooms and generally not feeling good about my choices. I've definitely ended up walking most of the way around the East Hall looking for a bathroom that doesn't have a line of dudes running out of it (as I lack the courage, as a balding enby, to even attempt a women's bathroom in Japan).
I don't want to engage in Discourse™ too much, but I will say that while we haven't been given a clear or final indication as to how Ren thinks about gender labels and what labels do or do not apply to them, I feel very comfortable labeling Ren as trans. When it comes down to it, "trans" just means a more expansive conception of gender that encompasses more than the cisheteronormative framework most of us were raised within. Ren may think of Ren as a boy, a girl, a nonbinary entity, agender, or simply refuse to be bound by gender at all, but regardless, Ren is clearly uncomfortable just inhabiting the space that other people assume or assign Ren into.
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