But what I REALLY SERIOUSLY HATE, and I say this as a STRAIGHT MAN, is when male writers think lesbians "just haven't met the right guy". People can't be 'turned' like that! You can't just "charm" a (clearly) lesbian into falling for a man, any more than I could be talked into being gay!
Y'know how most comic book writers don't make their villains do the things they do cos they personally support destroying the moon with a laser gun?
It's a wildly different thing to portray it being possible to destroy the moon with a laser gun in your story than it is to portray a lesbian as being so only because they haven't met the right man lol, what a ridiculous analogy
