My willingness to cut them a break stops when they get aggressive about anyone (like me) not being pessimistic. My gaydar is a well built, finely tuned, and lovingly maintained instrument lol. I took multiple college classes that contributed nothing to my major like classes on queer film theory and literary analysis, just for the sake of getting real good at picking up the signs.
(Not that any of that was necessary for a case as obvious as this one, that stuff is mostly useful for picking up subtext in cases where the author is trying to work around explicit censorship like gay novelists from the 1800s)
Give it some more work and you have a pretty neat and gay copypasta.
^ and the Baerys association happened when everyone wrote fanfics of other holomems in minecraft and bae and irys wrote themselves in bed playing monopoly