Truly, I had forgot that lesbians' are notorious for liking dick. I'm one myself and I forgot. Really sorry about that, won't happen again.
Trans women exist.
Yeah I know, I see one everyday in the office. She's nice and tells pretty good jokes. What's your point?
You're kinda indirectly implying that trans women can't be lesbians or have relationships with other women.
i think it's important to remember that no one is more or less gay for being in a relationship with a trans person, and that trans women also date other trans women and this is still a lesbian relationship.
How so? I apologize, if my words may have come off as harsh or rude (I'm ESL, tone isn't my forte) but how did I say that? I simply, but sarcastically, said lesbians don't like dick... Which is what lesbians don't like...Am I missing something?
if it's not on purpose, that's fine, but be careful with your words, especially in this discussion.
the biggest mistake here is to be focused on genitals. We can go on a deep "biological sex ≠ genre" talk or even "some lesbians use dildos and that's don't make them less lesbians" (not to mention bissexuals folks like me.)
all comes down to extremely personal preferences in the end. It's wrong for a cis lesbian not feeling confortable to have sex with a trans person? Of couse no. But it also don't make lesbians that like have sex with trans womans less lesbians.
If I get what you're saying, then I didn't mean for it to be on purpose.
That doesn't make sense to me. How is it a mistake to focus on the thing I am attracted to that makes me a lesbian and not heterosexual?
There is bisexuality for one also the whole "two trans womens dating is also lesbian" thing that i said. And again, genitals don't define your gender if you are trans, nonbinary and, to complicate a little more or understand of what is gender and sex even means, intersexual people.
Me, as a bissexual, i see genitals as irrelevant for faling in love with someone. It's only define "the type of fun" we can have doing sex. but some people don't like or have sex and still are on a relationship (the aro/ace spectrum varies.)
We are on a age where trans people have more visibility than never, they are a very small portion of the population but it's the basic to consider them and treat the topic with respect. It's not a black and white thing.