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aint_easy
Bridesmaid discussion 05 Jun 03:37
joined Jun 5, 2015

"I've always loved you, and I'll make sure to only tell you when I get married to someone else in front of you to make sure it really hurts."

I don't mind angsty stories or bad/sad endings, but this was needlessly cruel on the bride's part. Maybe that's just me though.
Even if it's the whole "I'll tell you so I won't have any regrets", there's better times to do that other than literally at the wedding cerimony...

I think it is more along the lines of "I'll tell you so you won't have any regrets." I mean, the Bride knows the Bridesmaid has been in love with her for a long time, and had been in love with her back too. And despite the Bridesmaid loving her she still came and were her Bridesmaid. So the best thing she could do - without leaving the groom and thus messing up everything regarding her family and traditions she worked so hard to maintain in the first place - is to give the Bridesmaid some closure. A "I know you love me. I love you too. But we both know it can't be. Here's a kiss for good luck." kinda deal. Now the Bridesmaid can go on with a broken heart but a fresh palette.

I mean after all, love isn't only to get someone but also to know when to let someone go. If you truly love someone you'll want what is best for them and not for yourself, no?

I really hate the fact the bride knows how the bridemaid feel but still do all the wedding stuff with her.

It's like having shattered dream for breakfast,lunch and dinner and as for the bridemaid why not tell her real feeling before the woman she loves get to the point of marriage?

If one of them took the step and their feeling is mutual there is always a way.

aint_easy
Bridesmaid discussion 05 Jun 03:37
joined Jun 5, 2015

"I've always loved you, and I'll make sure to only tell you when I get married to someone else in front of you to make sure it really hurts."

I don't mind angsty stories or bad/sad endings, but this was needlessly cruel on the bride's part. Maybe that's just me though.
Even if it's the whole "I'll tell you so I won't have any regrets", there's better times to do that other than literally at the wedding cerimony...

I think it is more along the lines of "I'll tell you so you won't have any regrets." I mean, the Bride knows the Bridesmaid has been in love with her for a long time, and had been in love with her back too. And despite the Bridesmaid loving her she still came and were her Bridesmaid. So the best thing she could do - without leaving the groom and thus messing up everything regarding her family and traditions she worked so hard to maintain in the first place - is to give the Bridesmaid some closure. A "I know you love me. I love you too. But we both know it can't be. Here's a kiss for good luck." kinda deal. Now the Bridesmaid can go on with a broken heart but a fresh palette.

I mean after all, love isn't only to get someone but also to know when to let someone go. If you truly love someone you'll want what is best for them and not for yourself, no?

I really hate the fact the bride knows how the bridemaid feel but still do all the wedding stuff with her.

It's like having shattered dream for breakfast,lunch and dinner and as for the bridemaid why not tell her real feeling before the woman she loves get to the point of marriage?

If one of them took the step and their feeling is mutual there is always a way.

aint_easy
Bridesmaid discussion 05 Jun 03:21
joined Jun 5, 2015

Fleur is a masochist but i can relate T_T.

The lady who married for family obligation is going to regret her whole life if you love someone go for it.

geez!!!!