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i can't believe these comments.. really unbelievable. And i know some of you are just being critic.. just stating your opinions and although there's nothing wrong about that since we all have the right to, some of these comments were really unnecessary and i just find it insensitive. For someone who find this totally relatable, i feel like i'm being laughed at.
I just got out of a 7-year relationship, 4 years we lived together because both of us runaway from home since both our parents were against homosexuality (yknow the one which you may also call "cliche" where parents beat their kids for being gay). We struggled for months when we first left home. Having no one to depend on and both of us were still in high school. We worked, did everything to prove to ourselves that we can survive on our own and we are definitely not coming home. Anyway to make the story short (since this telling you this story is hurting me terribly) after literally building my whole life with her for seven years and after getting so used to seeing her everyday, we broke up. She found someone else. And let me tell you this.. as a kid, i've always thought that those who'd die/kill themselves because of "love" were really stupid and i used to tell myself that they were weak and that i will never be one of those people.. I told myself that I know how to control my emotions and that I am more important than anyone else therefore i will never do anything to hurt myself. But i was so wrong, she became more important to me than anyone or anything else in the world.. When she left, i was terribly hurt i couldn't stand it.. I realize those people weren't weak, sometimes the pain is just too much. I had to find myself again. I had to define myself again without her. So please to those who never had any serious relationship or god forbid any relationship at all, you will never understand how much it hurts when the person you thought was the one.. wasn't. So don't just drop words like you have it all figured out and that you understand.
Now let me make an insensitive comment, for those who made unnecessary ones: you guys probably never experienced loving someone so much or never have fallen so deep everything you'd think you'll never do.. you'd do. And unless you've experienced these, and you've experienced being hurt so much.. you won't care how shallow this story might be delivered anymore because you'd understand.
Let me end this with the quote from the book South of Border, West of Sun by one of the greatest author in the world who clearly understands and is always spot on, Haruki Murakami: "I think you still love me, but we can’t escape the fact that I’m not enough for you. I knew this was going to happen. So I’m not blaming you for falling in love with another woman. I’m not angry, either. I should be, but I’m not. I just feel pain. A lot of pain. I thought I could imagine how much this would hurt, but I was wrong.” ... and if you can relate to this quote, i think you and me are both in the same page.
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"...I want to portray a slightly different relationship, one where the two mutually inspire each other to live - if I’m able to, then perhaps I’ll be closer to portraying a true expression of love."- Hayao Miyazaki
This is how i see Ran and Keiko's relationship. I think how they stick around for each other and support one another is a perfect portrayal of true love. So, i have no doubt that they truly love each other, but sadly it doesn't guarantee us that they're gonna end up together.
goooood! Part of me wishes the author to just lay down everything already and end this vagueness. but i have to admit that the ambiguity in the story and how the author fills it nicely is quite amazing.
last edited at Apr 30, 2015 2:50PM
OMG,thank you soooo much !
Ive been looking for this manga i read here before. Its a story about 3 good friends ... i remember in the start of the manga one of them died because of an accident. So its just basically a story that shows how these 2 friends cope up with their grief and remembering this girl that was once with them. I do believe it was a ONESHOT, but im not very sure. please please ? anyone knows this ? and oh, there was something about their names, it comprises a constellation or smth.
ive been looking for this manga for so long its starting to haunt me in my sleep.
last edited at Apr 29, 2014 3:50PM