"he's making his move again" so he's tried multiple times to get with Oosawa. Letting him know that the person he is currently flirting with is already in a relationship isn't toxic at all. How could anyone see it that way? Imagine you're flirting with someone and they hide the fact they are in a relationship, that's significantly worse than being open about it. A simple "sorry she's in a relationship already" is the best thing you can say.