I was literally thinking 'this can't get more retarded' after she accepted that idiotic bargain, but boy, what do I know. What an absolute crock of shit.
Actually, the ashtray happens first, as physical punishment for seeking independence. The “Do whatever you want” is granting permission when the abuser already knows that person (OL) had already moved on because she (the OL) didn’t pursue her when she returned to her abusive partner.
I think you might be misreading it. 'The dumbass' isn't Iori.
If she keeps using kodama every time she has a sexual thought, she's going to make a terrible involuntary connection by the time they actually get round to doing anything more physical.
As a subject of the UK government, I have to say I was never taught a thing about grammar past punctuation. I'm always surprised whenever I see 'whom' used correctly.