Fellowship of Freelancers
joined Oct 11, 2010
Even deeper than that, though, I would suggest not trying to label places like Dynasty as one group's or the other's. It's quite counterproductive to argue against groups and you should focus on the opinions instead.
I generally agree with that practice, for casual arguments among friends anyway. But in that post I was responding to the claim that "transphobia does not happen here," itself a response to a trans confession of feeling unwelcome. The point I wanted to get at was that even if that skeptic personally challenges any explicit transphobia on the site, there is still a larger context to why someone might feel rejection and sometimes disgust even from allies (most notably so in clashes around futa). I labeled that feeling as being in a cis space because I wanted to emphasize how cis norms become seen as natural to yuri and certainly not political, while outside perspective can be freely treated as those of a political agenda or alien culture. That said, I like Dynasty's community and agree that identity politics are not necessary to draw upon for every dispute, but then again, sometimes you're not arguing with friends.
Trying to be generous to UranusAndNeptuneAreJustCousins's position, I took his comment as less "transphobia doesn't happen here" and more "transphobia is largely mitigated here". If it's the latter, he's probably taking a progressive rather than revolutionary position on social change, meaning you're more likely to disagree on his approach to solving social justice problems rather than his being transphobic in this specific instance.
I'd probably argue that Dynasty's at a trans-tolerant enough point that it'd be hard to bring it to a more tolerant position without certain structural changes to things like cis-normative tagging trends and deeper conversations on what sex and gender structurally are (and maybe deeper discussions of how we use stereotypes). Problem with that is you'd have a slim chance of getting the trans people around here to agree on some of those topics, let alone everyone else...
"I was avoiding dynasty for awhile all-together because I thought this was a manga site for queer cis women and it was best for me to not invade their space." This is the main thing that concerned me, and I still feel like there's an inkling of that this last reply. Actions and mindsets that directly remove yourself from conversations because it's "not my place" only serve to create rifts. I'm not really sure I can rectify this paragraph with the previous one other than by taking the progressive stance of, "let people bicker with each other and it'll work itself out."