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Fareeha looks like Korra at the special pages.

I knew she looked familiar!

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Me likey.:)

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Hello people. I've been reading this series for quite some while and I wanted to post a review of it here. I am curious to know whether people agree or not with it.

The following review will contain some very important spoilers. For disclosure purposes I should mention I am myself a transgender woman and that many things I will critique about the series have to do with identity issues.


When I first started reading "Bokura no Hentai" I found myself intrigued. A manga that deals respectfully with transgender and crossdressing characters, without mixing up the two categories? A story that doesn't focus on fanservice but on the actual, real-life problems queer youth faces? Count me in!

"Bokura no Hentai", for the most part, delivers amazingly well on its premise. The characters are very interesting and humane, each one of them with their own life issues. Even more importantly, the trio of protagonists (Marika, who is the trans girl of the group, Tamura, who is crossdressing for his lover, and Ryousuke who does so for his dead sister) are not the exclusive focus of the story. Secondary characters like Akane and Tomochi also get some of the spot light and the mangaka manages to handle their cases very well.

There is a great deal of diversity among the protagonists and their experiences, so the story doesn't get monotonous. Moreover, the "plot" gives plenty of room for character development. Honestly, one of the most enjoyable parts of "Bokura no Hentai" is watching the characters I've come to love grow and learn from their experiences. It made me feel as if I went to school with them, listened to their worries and shared their concerns. It made me care about them a whole lot.

The art is great, minimalistic yet not simplistic. I especially loved the colored introductions in each volume. I believe that they give a warmer feeling to the story and they work great as a way to further humanize the characters.

So far I've described 99% of what "Bokura no Hentai" is. Honestly, I wish I could stop here. I wish I could just give it a big shining 10/10 and tell you it has earned its place among the masterpieces of our time.

SPOILERS

But, unfortunately, there's chapter 40. The chapter where Marika is having second thoughts about her identity. The chapter where she misgenders herself so that a group of irrelevant, anonymous cosplaying male students won't feel bad for not being as cute as she is. The chapter where essentially none of her friends tries to confront her about this attitude, in a way telling the readers that they too thought of her as a cute guy who crosses or, as the series tells us, a boy with a perversion. The chapter where she enters a crossdressing contest, even though from the first chapter of "Bokura no Hentai" she clearly, unapologetically states that she is not a crossdresser but a woman. The chapter where the mangaka managed, in just a few panels, to completely ruin every good thing had been done since the beginning of the story.

There are plenty of reasonable approaches one could take to justify this chapter. One could say Marika is still a teen, one who faced plenty of bullying that forced her in the closet. Perhaps the mangaka wanted to show us another issue transgender people face in our everyday lives (and doubt is undeniably one of them). Perhaps her friends didn't want to push her out of her doubts, perhaps they felt it was not their place to do so.

You know what? None of these excuses stands to scrutiny. First of all, the doubt/misgendering part came out of nowhere and felt completely out of character. Speaking strictly on technical writing grounds, it was the dumbest thing the mangaka could do at this point of the story. It'd be like having Tom Hanks in Philadelphia say something along the lines of "hey, am I really gay after all?" just a few minutes before the movie's ending. Yeah, it is that dumb.

Secondly, we never see Marika get over her self-doubt. Instead, we just get a "who cares?" attitude from the rest of the crowd, which I find outrageous for a story that did its best to convince us that this is an accepting, loving environment for Marika. What am I to make of this? That the ultra-supporting people who surrounded her simply thought of her as delusional? That for them cosplaying and being trans belong in the perversion category? Again, this is not what "Bokura no Hentai" showed us up until chapter 40. It's like the writer forgot about her own work and decided to do a fantasy (more like nightmare) version of this story.

Last, but not least, and this a completely subjective thought, it was not a necessity for "Bokura no Hentai" to deal with the issue of doubt. I am not the sort of reader that demands social justice to be the centerpiece of a given story. I can deal with very triggering and disturbing material. For example, I wouldn't care that much if this was a fantasy story where a character is trans but simply decides that it's all just a perversion or that they like to be bullied, etc. I may still dislike it but it'd be more forgivable.

"Bokura no Hentai", however, presents itself as a story that cares about such things, about the pains of real life human beings. And as such, it'd be dishonest on my part to ignore how much it failed to deliver here. Transgender people face doubt on every front of our daily lives. There's plenty of room to talk about that. But Marika's life was a best case scenario situation, quite possibly the most well present of its kind I've come across in any form of storytelling. It's one of the few times we got to see an optimistic view of a transgender life, where acceptance by one's self and the world rule the day. It's exactly because "Bokura no Hentai" gave me hope and joy that I cannot forgive this slip. Perhaps I'd be more indifferent to this part if I were not transgender myself, but honestly, I find this chapter to be indefensible.

SPOILERS END HERE

Despite the miserable failure that chapter 40 is, Bokura no Hentai remains an amazing manga, one of the best to deal with gender issues. If one ignores that one chapter, it's almost a masterpiece. It's just sad to look at it when I know that it was just one step away from perfection. Do I recommend reading it? Yes, I do. Just try not to get overexcited until you complete it.

I completely 100% agree :)

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God this manga and the comments are the ultimate way to get depressed.
Though I do really enjoy the manga :)

Strange. I found each new chapter more and more cathartic than depressing. The first one was extremely dark, but I realize now that it was necessary to make the story of the author-protagonist regaining a measure of control over her own life as impactful as it could possibly get.

Yeah I guess you're right... Though eventually in the end it's not that depressing, it's just the fact that so many people here have experienced all kinds of stuff said in the manga and it's kind of... Overwhelming I guess... Well yes I do relate to some stuff but not to the extremes as presented in the manga. Like I had some problem with bulimia but after like 4 monyhs I regained my composure and managed to stop, and yeah during that time I had some struggles with depression, but my personality luckily made it so that I could fairly quickly (compared to other people) resolve those issues myself. Like the extreme situations in this manga, that some heavy shet... And apparently lots of people here experience that heavy shet....

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AnimexObsession
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Omg this was actually pretty adorable x)

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Well idk normally I don't like this kind of stuff but somehow with this one I do? Like I can somehow connect with the older brother? Is it the author's magic?

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AnimexObsession
Love discussion 18 Sep 16:58
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Yess I actullylike Yui and Kyouko since they're childhood friends and just yess... It was short lived ut sweet :)

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Omg this is pure gold really

AnimexObsession
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"The three of us feel good together"
For some reason I assumed they were going to scissor with 3 people somehow?? Idk anyway it was a really weird mental image haha

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10.03 discussion 18 Sep 16:35
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Omg one of my new favorite PMMM doujins ever omfg how did i miss this???

AnimexObsession
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Keeps being a lovely read no matter how many times i reread it c:

AnimexObsession
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Clearly your haven't read morinaga's bunny's road.

Omg nohhh that was just xDDX

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Cocytus discussion 18 Sep 14:51
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Aaannnddd time to reread cause i alredy forgot everything :S

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God this manga and the comments are the ultimate way to get depressed.
Though I do really enjoy the manga :)

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AnimexObsession
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Hahaha adorably sexy:)

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Rokuroichi discussion 17 Sep 18:21
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I love their art uwu

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I'm waiting with this one. I don't want to read it, get all excited waiting for the final updates, and then get depressed cause Michiru and Maya didn't end up together.... So yeahhh gonna wait and see what the comments say at the end

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Image Comments 17 Sep 18:02
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Mercy is undeniably shipped with every single character gahaha

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Image Comments 17 Sep 18:00
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Never can get enough of these 2 :)

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Fml oh god why did I even read this... Now I just wanna crawl up in a corner and cry.

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Image Comments 14 Sep 17:21
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This is seriously one of the best hottest sexiest images on this site oh mai gwad >//////<

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Image Comments 14 Sep 17:16
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Ok ok I'm a hardcore fan of Widowtracer but this is just TOO DAMN CUTE AAHHHH

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The nipple is the peak of the climax huh

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Huh, I thought that this was over for some reason... well, good thing it's not! I don't really remember what happened in the previous chapters, so I suppose it's time for a reread!

Exaclty me haha

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Cradlesong discussion 14 Sep 16:45
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A bit short but i still obsolutely enjoyed it :)