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In all honesty, I like knowing were these cararacters come from. But my main worry is that we will get 100 chapters with "will you go out with me, I really like you" then the story will be over, with no lovey dovey stuff or relationship angst. Id love to see them interact as a couple in love!

I worry about that too. If we get at least 5 lovey dovey chapters I will be happy.

Im worried too, if they get together so late, the story could pass from having a slow pace to being draggy.

we are only half way through the story so dont worry...just enjoy the series now. it will work out fine in the end.

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I wonder why Seju doesn't seem to like Nam. Somehow the idea of Nam & Seju getting together is not bad at all.

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we all are unique different individuals who came fr different walks of life. It's natural we have different view on things. With that being said, someone reminded me that I don't have to agree with the author 100% in order to enjoy the book. imo, if ff had progressed in faster pace I dont think I would have enjoyed the story this much. To be honest, there r times I want Seola to just grasp Norae and kiss her. then again, ff is no wdtfs

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The chapters are cheap though

If u live in the states/not third world countries then it's relatively inexpensive. But when compared to, for example, Vietnam's minimum wage appox $18-$20 per month then it isnt so inexpensive. I am not trying to make an excuse but the cost isnt affordable to all readers. of course, there readers just want free stuffs. Anway, I would too recommend paying to read the series. Though not bc it's illegal but it's the right thing to do.

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I have a feeling we're not gonna have a "hot" scene between Sungji and Sumin next week

I agree with u. Sumin initially held back bc Sungji is inexperience but now I think she is unsure if she can bring Sungji happiness.

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Who's the woman in the last few panels? Is that seol-a as well?

I think it's Seo-la. the couch

Dang i hope no-rae wont fall back for her ex, someone please confirm something lol

I hope not. It appears No-rae has moved on with her life. with the ex, maybe she will realize how much Seol-a mean to her? then make some bold moves?

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Great analysis Anonymous!! I still do wonder how different things would be for Seola and No-Rae if Yu-Ji didn't die. I see a lot of people commenting about Yu-Ji's problem with coming out.I don't think that was the only problem though. As Ssamba seems to focus away the attention (or problem) with sexuality. I have never read anyone saying or thinking "But we're both girls".
So imo, there was already this side of Yu-Ji when she fell for Seol-a. Maybe she would react on a similar way, had she fallen for a guy too. Like wanting him to hurt.
So if she and Seol-a had finally taken things further, they might as well be having problems with their relationship too. Like maybe Yu-Ji getting jealous etc.
Nonetheless, her story is really sad and tragic

Does it matter since Yuji is already death? It's like go on saying what woulda coulda shoulda been when things are all said and done. This 'significant' relationship may contained experience, love, regrets, etc which contributed to the person Seola is right now.

They say it is good to let the feelings out (express/release) when u r upset, angry, disappointed... Yuji chose to write them down. That secret letter is not meant to be read.

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Thoughts and FEELINGS by pandaopinion (with some very minor editing):

Thanks for sharing the post. I really like his/her analysis.

I thought love is kind. I thought love is patience.

This immediately reminded me of a song called Love Never Fails - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RYHClwngQzs

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The part of her personality where she would rather hurt someone deeply instead of making up with them because she wants to remain in their memories is irrational and twisted, but I don't think she wanted to hurt Seol-a in the first place. Things just turned out that way.

Don't know Yuji's personality was twisted or not but from reading the transcript, I don't think Yuji would rather hurt Seol-a instead of making up with her. She did want to apologize and tell Seol-a everything. Then she went on saying she wants Seol-a...but doesn't want to be a burden, doesn't want to make Seol-a 'more of a mess' I think Yuji was looking out for Seol-a. About her comment abt remaining in Seola's memories, to me it more like 'I would rather you keep hating me than to have any regrets.

She indeed liked the fact that she was able to hurt Seol-a, because that way she would scar her for life and Seol-a wouldn't be able to forget her. They say, if you can't make someone love you, make them not forget you.
("I'd like if you had very painful memories of me. I don't want to become some worthless reminder.")

I would somewhat agree with u if Yuji didn't contradict her initial twisted thoughts (imo they are sarcastic, very similar to what she said of Seol-a in the class room) with "to be honest, I want to tell you everything. I want to apologize to you over and over again..." She didn't expect Seola overhearing their conversation. and yes, Yuji shouldn't had said them if they weren't true...but it's high school. I remember it's a jungle there. Beside those comments, she didn't do anything to hurt Seola. I think it is unfair to judge Yuji based solely on those comments.

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The part of her personality where she would rather hurt someone deeply instead of making up with them because she wants to remain in their memories is irrational and twisted, but I don't think she wanted to hurt Seol-a in the first place. Things just turned out that way.

Don't know Yuji's personality was twisted or not but from reading the transcript, I don't think Yuji would rather hurt Seol-a instead of making up with her. She did want to apologize and tell Seol-a everything. Then she went on saying she wants Seol-a...but doesn't want to be a burden, doesn't want to make Seol-a 'more of a mess' I think Yuji was looking out for Seol-a. About her comment abt remaining in Seola's memories, to me it more like 'I would rather you keep hating me than to have any regrets.

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convenient letter left behind is convenient.

why is it "convenient" since the translation is not out yet? Maybe you can share with us what's going on?

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But I do want to know, how her feelings for No-rae are different from the ones for Yu-Ji, even if Yu-Ji lived. Seol-a dating guys was never too deep for me personally to worry, but Yu-Ji is a different story.

I can imagine the feelings must be different. To me, it is impossible to compare the feelings. With Yuji, Seola was young vs Seola now, she is much more mature. People love differently as they get older, especially with different person. If Yuji lived, I think Seola would still chase after Norae. Her feelings for Yuji are no longer the same as they were.

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I still think Seola's feeling for Yu-ji was romatic.

I always thought so too. Maybe not entirely romantic, but almost there, and never got actualized due to the incident.

I agree.

But I hated the idea that Yuji might have felt the same, so I was always against talking about it since I wanted Ssamba to leave it there and let the readers imagine it on their own. But darn it Ssamba, sometimes its better to keep the thoughts in your head.

I thought Yuji might have felt the same way at the scene where Yuji lies on Seola's laps.

I think it would be hard for Seola to move on if Ssamba leave thing as is...refer to chapter 44.

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I wonder if Seola flew back to Australia to visit Yu-ji's grave? Their relationship didn't have a proper closure so... I still think Seola's feeling for Yu-ji was romatic. She probably didn't know it at the time.

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In my opinion, Ssamba is a genius. She sure knows how to captivate the readers. Full stop.

Yes, I totally agree. The story appears predictable yet not so much. Love it!

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Somehow I got that vibe too, that he cheated on No-rae or something. Cuz when Kye-hyung reminisced about it, she was trying to make a connection why Norae was emotionally affected by Seola's cheating ex-bf incident. It could because there was cheating involved... Or maybe she was just thinking it was a bad break up for Norae too, so Norae felt bad for Seola. Idk.

I don't think the ex cheated on Norae. 1) he doesn't look like a cheater. If he's that type of a guy, he would have hit on Seol-a after bumping into her. Seol-a is no ordinary girl. 2) If he did cheat on Norae, I cannot think of any good reason for bringing him back.

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@LustGreed
I am curious to know how do u know the 'generalization' was based on one opinion?
have u read this thread/other forums?

If the person didn't base it in just one opinion, then that person is not what I think he/she is. As simple as that.

anyone who's read the thread wouldn't have assumed the statement was based on one opinion. not all 'generalization' is bad. there are different types of love.

I didn't say generalization is bad. We do that when we have collected enough data. But as I've seen in the thread, that was not the case. Nobody said that "Seju cheated out of love" except that one comment. Some say out of confusion, some putting blame on Sumin, even in fb pages they mentioned it as "grave mistake" and others didn't bother justifying it. Well, I might be wrong since I haven't read all of the threads. So maybe there are lots of people out there who said it that's why the person came out with that. :P

I don’t think the assumption was just based on just that one comment. though it’s quite funny to justify Seju cheated out of love. it is pointless to make an excuse since nothing can justify for the action - Seju screwed up period. Seju fans use love to justify pretty much all of Seju’s actions which might be true since love can make people do crazy/selfish/idiotic things. I still don’t understand Sumin’s actions after the event. Nothing makes sense when it comes to Seju/Sumin relationship. Just hope Sungji won’t get hurt from it.

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@LustGreed
I am curious to know how do u know the 'generalization' was based on one opinion?
have u read this thread/other forums?

If the person didn't base it in just one opinion, then that person is not what I think he/she is. As simple as that.

anyone who's read the thread wouldn't have assumed the statement was based on one opinion. not all 'generalization' is bad. there are different types of love.

I'm just saying that everybody has their own different opinion regarding the matter, like how they see the character(s) and the reason behind the character's action and whatnot.

Yes, I totally agree with u on this point. Seju is still somewhat mysterious to me. though her thoughts in the latest chapter raised some red flags. let's see see how her character will develop in the next chapters. I am not sure of Sungji's character yet. I wonder how she would respond/react to Sumin&Seju's relationship.

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Seju got into the cheating because of the worry that Sumin would leave her. Why would have she done that? Becasue she loves Sumin. Why on earth do you have to care about someone's behavior toward you that much if that person is nothing to you?

Quote of the year, ladies and gentlemen. If you love someone, make sure you cheat on them to really get the message across. That'll show them!

Seju fans will insist that the main motive behind all of her actions is love. Others who've actually read the dialogue will say otherwise. Let's just agree to disagree.

Generalising based in just one opinion is plain stupidity.

@LustGreed
I am curious to know how do u know the 'generalization' was based on one opinion?
have u read this thread/other forums?

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I am curious to know why u thought wdtfs would top ff. they r two very different Manhwa and I like them both. but i enjoy ff a bit more bc Seola & Norae's certain traits remind me of someone.

Honestly, idk, personal preference i guess? It's really hard to explain why this is only slightly better then FF. I love FF, but maybe it's cause the progession between the two main characters is alittle slow for me. Other then that, the characters from both stories are absolutely amazing and unique, so no advantage there. This one has better drawing, which doesnt play a large factor in me choosing which one is better. So I guess it just goes down to story progression for me I guess. Just IMO

ic. u r not alone though, lots of fans have said the same thing abt the story progression. both characters have known each other less than a year, so to me the pace is good. ff is like a pg-13 Manhwa, so we will probably just get small kisses.

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Edit: I honestly never thought any Manwha would top Fluttering Feelings.................until this came along

I am curious to know why u thought wdtfs would top ff. they r two very different Manhwa and I like them both. but i enjoy ff a bit more bc Seola & Norae's certain traits remind me of someone.

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according to a friend, the next chapter will be released on 11/5. There will be around 80 chapters in stead of 50. Let's see how their love triangle pans out.

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Easier said than done.

Yep, it is usually easier said than done. However, it is not impossible, speaking from experience haha. Everyone has something that called Will.

Seju is in the point of no return already.

Why so pessimistic? why can't she let go and move on? what'd she accomplish by continue going down the same destructive road? If Seju is really crazy, then I have no opinion

Seju doesn't have anyone except Sumin

For the time being, yes. I wonder why that is. Seju might be able to find someone who can actually bring her happiness if she is willing to venture outside the box.

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Seju/Sumin's relationship started to take a different turn after Seju slept with someone else. I think the relationship couldn't survive bc the cheating occurred during Sumin's worst time. The relationship between them was so messed up and shouldn't have continued the way that it did. What they had was not a normal relationship-they were just fk buddies as my co-worker usually put it. Idk, this type of relationship usually doesn't work out at the end unless both parties are on the same page and Seju/Sumin clearly weren't. While Sumin is moving toward the light at the end of the tunnel, Seju is stuck behind. That is where we are now. The past is history. How Seju choose to move forward is up to her. If Seju continues to insist things to stay the same as before, she would be in for a big disappointment. Life is constantly changing whether she likes it or not. It is going be a bad ending for all three parties if Seju doesn't move on. I think Sumin will be the one to help Seju. We all hope for a happy end.

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everyone is entitled to their opinion and here is my take on Seju. from the beginning, I thought Seju's personality is off. It is wise to laugh off unpleasant things but not all the time. Everyone has their limits. Toward the end of chapter 27, Seju thought 'no matter how many times it happens, she will become mine again' raised the red flag, 1) Sumin is not an object to claim. I heard this line before from people who have controlling personality. 2) what made Seju so sure Sumin will come back to her again? what'd she do if Sumin doesn't? now Sumin has finally found someone who has the potential of giving her a start over/fresh start. Let's see how Seju will react to it. Seju is responsible for own happiness/destiny, no one else. She does have a complicated family but is it an excuse for her behaviors? Seju cannot choose her family but she can certainly can choose to do going forward. I don't think Seju is evil yet. I think we will learn more of her personality in the next chapters.

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