Yes, if you completely ignore everything I wrote inbetween it would be hard to follow a standard line of thought.
ignored nothing, your line of thought literally doesn't make any sense.
The first part refered to what followed right after, the part you conveniently cut out. Kase-san doesnt tell Yamada important things and lives freely without a need to report back to her, something Kase-san doesn't grant Yamada
How does she not grant Yamada that? Point out a single time Kase demanded to know everything about what Yamada was planning and doing. She doesn't, she never has. Kase has no problem at all with Yamada going out and making friends, she has a problem when Yamada wants to go to college parties specifically about hooking people up.
And she specifically said that she went to "this kind of place" before. That seems oddly specific if she wasn't talking about a City Party/mixer. Even in the case if I misinterpreted that point, everything else I said was correct, so I didn't make shit up and you are still dishonest. Good job.
No, nothing else you said was correct, just like your misinterpretation about "this kind of place". You are literally making shit up to make Kase look bad so it can fit your "both sides are at fault" BS. There is nothing hypocritical about what Kase did.