Yes the relationship from the beginning spelled doom but at least she takes responsibility and stays with her.
Yeah, it must be terrific to be with someone who you believe loves you, but doesn't really.
Yeah, wouldn't it be more terrific if she ends up becoming a delinquent again and becomes even less likely to have a meaningful relationship with anyone. Deep psychological scars are fine but realizing the one I love doesn't love me back in the exact same way???
"If." Also, why would she necessarily be kept from having future meaningful relationships just because her first love didn't go right? Most people's haven't, with no such effects. Speaking for myself, I'd prefer to end a relationship and move on than persist into a relationship based on such lie. Staying with a person you don't love and tricking them into believing you do isn't doing neither you nor them a favor.
Nothing keeps sensei from learning to love the student's "new" self, tho -- and learning to love is a necessary step in every long-term relationship. What should be questioned are the reasons for doing so: if it's a desire to try, okay, but if it's pity or duty or something... Just don't.
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