@ Galich

But I'm gonna go to bed now! It's past 2 o'clock already! o_O
Getting too late... I'm gonna reply to the rest tomorrow. Have fun ^^b And try to get some rest too!

@ Utoptia

Looks like an open end to me.

@ Blackkitty

Oh... sweet and kinky dreams to you too! (^_-)v

@ Galich

I don't usually care about what other people think, so... not stressful really. I don't have to prove anything. Up till now I've only fallen in love with women. It's not that I would mind falling in love with a guy. It's just it never happened and I'm also pretty sure it never will so... no need to explain myself to anyone...

Well... can't really judge a situation without knowing the details, so yeah, I have to take your word for that one... Still hope that you'll find a way to work things out between you two...

Can't you just throw in a casual question to your parents to bring that subject up and see what they think about it...? Sounds like you've already talked to them about stuff like that before but maybe they've changed their mind since then... Do you talk about TV shows with your mom, for instance...?

Uh, I think you got that part wrong. I didn't mean that I'm any different in real life.
Actually, what you see here is me ^^
I'm always like that; open-minded, outgoing, cheeky, flirty, a little teasing, a little annoying, a little too cocky sometimes, pert maybe, curious and strange ^^
But really lazy and stubborn ;) Oh, however, I don't walk around in rainbow colors (^_-)v
And I don't like to intrude... that's probably why I was never a real forum person... could also explain why I screwed up a little when I started here... Doing new things makes me quite nervous... and awkward... ;) So, yeah, what you see here is totally me. (^.^)
That's probably one of the good things about me, I never really put up an act. That's why I don't like lying much.... That's why I can't get rid of annoying solicitors and the Jehovah's Witnesses... O_O
I just meant that I do get really shy once someone crosses the lines I drew. But you can't do that online... we'd have to meet in person for you to do that. So you'll probably never see that happen here ^^

@ oliver

Not everyone has to be an expert on music, so that's fine. I get confused sometimes as well with all of those genres, labels and tags... o_O So I mostly go with some general tag...

Since it's been a while that we posted some music, here we go:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HwgNMrs-i80
(^__^)b
Music makes life just so much better!!!!!!

I really like that you think of this thread as a maid cafe ^^
I'm just not sure if I'm your typical maid though (ˆ⌣ˆ)

@ Alvis

Aloha! Good to see you're still around! (⌒▽⌒)☆

You've missed a lot of madness! (◦’ںˉ◦)
Queer people doing queer things ^^
Nothing all too spectacular, I guess, just some fun and entertainment...

How have you been? Except being busy and all... Has life been treating you any good? ;)

@ Galich

My coming out is nothing to be sorry about, really. It was all good. No awkwardness... It's just my brother hardly ever takes me seriously, I guess ^^ But he's not a bad guy. Never treated me any different because of that.

Maybe you can make up with that friend of yours if you tell them that you've been going through a really tough time and apologize...?

It's a good thing that your parents are supportive of the LGB community.
That makes things a lot easier... at least it should be like that.

And yes, I can be very shy... What of it?!? (õ_ó)
That's the little girl in me that never grew up... ;)

@ ChocolateCakeLover

I'm all for UBI!!!!!!!!
Best idea I've ever heard!!!!
I mean, how great would that be? Never having to worry about paying your bills again! (Unless you really overdo things...) That would be perfect! Because that's what you do most of the time when you're an adult: paying bills... t(-__-t)
I hope we'll get to that at some point... rather sooner than later...

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@ Blackkitty

Finally time to answer your posts properly!!! (^.^)/
Sorry for the delay! I was sooo tired Saturday night and wasn't really online yesterday... o_O

I'm not sure if I'm "one hell of a woman"... I'm just strange, I guess ^^
I've always been a walking contradiction... (¯―¯٥)
Let me explain myself here a little ;)
I am good – as long as everything's good ^^ If you manage to piss me off – which is very hard for most people – then I can get nasty (but reasonable still)
(and I love sociopaths in art ^^ loooovvveeee them (｀∇´)ψ )
I am pretty lazy about most things in life – especially hard work (^_^“) - but when I like or love something I get really passionate, wanting to savor every last bit of it (≧◡≦)
I am quite confident within the lines I drew myself – most people wouldn't guess or find it really hard to believe that I got problems with life – but beyond that I get extremely shy and awkward...
And well... the stubbornness... that's just a general thing (¬‿¬) It's in my blood...

heheheh... Well... I don't know if my dog is the spitting image of me... I hope not ^^
She likes to eat all day. That's her sole hobby.
She's not your average dog. She doesn't like to play with toys. No fetching, nothing. Her brothers loved that! She snatched their toys and sat on them o_O
But she likes to chew on me when we play „Attack!“ and she kinda likes to play tag.
However, she's eccentric and stubborn, just like me.

I'd love to see your magical abilities unlocked! You could go like this then:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dfyr2DLw454
(Edit: I still can't watch that clip to the end... too embarrassing...)

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@ Blackkitty

You and your feelings! ;)
You have some serious insight there ^^

I know I still have to reply to some posts.... I'm gonna get to that later on... still gotta do some things today... but I'll probably show up again later tonight (unlike yesterday... ^^“)

@ ciega

if yuri is a hobby, an obsession or somewhere in-between?

For me it's definitely a hobby.
A really private one since I am gay so it's not just a fetish ^^
But definitely not an obsession.

What about you?

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What? Did you expect me to criticize you? ;)
Me? Of all people? ^^
I'm a queer hippie zombie, I'm not one to criticize people for their gender or sexuality! (`･ω･´)

About that whole fad thing.
It's such a typical reaction for some people, unfortunately. That's just them being in denial.
My brother is the same. When I told him I was gay he was just like “Oh, please! You're gonna find the right guy.” A reaction like that is not really supportive but at the same time it doesn't bother me anymore because I found a few “right” guys by now. Some I probably would have fallen in love with if it weren't for me being gay. So that's how I know that he's just plain wrong.
Only you can know what's going on inside of you, who you are and how you wanna live your life.
So don't let it bother you. Easier said than done, I know, but still just try to focus on the good things, talk to the people who support you and don't let the rest get you down. That's the only way.

And take your time with your parents. That's probably the most difficult part...
But you're their child so maybe they already have a clue of what's going on with you...

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@ Galich

What can I say... First of all, congratulations for admitting that to yourself and coming out to your friends! That probably wasn't easy...
I'm all for it, l mean, look at my picture! ;) There's a rainbow there ^^ And it's there for a reason.
I can only imagine how hard this all must be for you.
Being gay isn't always easy. Being transgender is even harder.
So for now: Good luck with your family and friends. I hope they will support you, just like your best friend! And we're here for you as well whenever you want to talk about anything.

@ Galich

Go ahead if you feel like that would help you.
We'll listen.

@ Z. Long

You wanna know what got me into yuri?

I'm gonna be really boring here ^^
Being gay did the trick for me ;)

When I was younger I was always looking for anything gay related – because there really wasn't much. And I didn't have free access to the web back then.
I got into watching anime and reading manga at some point and then I read about a manga called “Chirality” and I had to have it because it was about two girls! ^^ That was honestly the sole reason because I didn't like the author, Satoshi Urushihara, and the story also wasn't really to my liking. But that one was my first yuri manga and it still made me quite happy back then (^_-)
I still have it for nostalgia reasons...

@ Utoptia

Awww... your dog is gorgeous! He put the cow there by himself...? That's cute! He has an eye for details ;)

Mine is not only lurking. It depends... She already lost her hope of getting something when that picture was taken.
When she still has hope or just wants to be patted she can get like this as well:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lQhRf2pzuC8

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IAoBOUzBVdo

And she totally does that sometimes:
http://dynasty-scans.com/chapters/the_flower_and_the_star_volume_1_special#4

She really is acting like a cat ^^

@ Galich

Like your new pic!
And I never said you weren't allowed to change it! ^^ You wanted to keep the cynic... ;P

@ Blackkitty

My dog really is gay ^^
My sister has one of those:
http://www.albas-labrador-welpen.de/images/labrador-showlinie-baika-vom-alten-steinhaus.jpg
And she's female as well. My dog always loved to violate her... And my sisters dog – being way bigger than mine – would just lay down and let it happen ^^
Guess she kinda liked it... ;P
And whenever a male dog tried to sniff on her, when she was in heat, she just sat down and made it impossible to reach the parts they wanted to reach... (^_^“)
She's great! I love her! (^_-)v

I'm gonna follow Galichs example now and go to bed too. Getting really tired...
Have fun guys!

@ Blackkitty

Sucks for her but I was never really into tennis... so I'm going with a Catherine Tate line here: I'm not bothered! ^^

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qSNK-9v7_JI

@ Galich

I thought about that as well... but on the contrary if no one ever posts anything here, new folks wouldn't bother to show up either when they feel that it's dead...

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True, but I really think they just didn't see the cancellation coming... Even though that might have been a little naive... but I'm sure they just liked the comic as is and wanted to stick to that.
With a lot of anime that don't stay true to the comic you always hear people complaining a lot why they left some parts out and folks saying stuff like „my favorite part wasn't in there“ or in this case probably stuff like „but I really liked the comedy part about it“... Personally I like it whenever I love a comic or a book and they really adapt it one on one. So I can't really complain about that one... Except for the cancellation part of course ^^

I just took a quick look at it again and I think it's pretty much one on one... The anime stretched some things a tiny little bit sometimes but up to episode 11 it's one episode for a chapter.
Episode 12 never happened in the comics (as far as I remember).
So chapter 12 is episode 13, but same thing: an entire episode for one chapter...
So the two problems I see are as follows:
1. The anime is based on a comic that took some time to get really good and stayed true to the pace of the original work
2. The anime got cancelled before it got anywhere near the good parts.
So it's not really the fault of the anime. I'm sure it would have been great if it would have been continued...

I read the show was cancelled because it didn't sell well... Sucks... But that explains things... If the producers knew that they only had 13 episodes they might have left some of the not really necessary chapters out to actually cover some more of the essential story...

I think it wasn't bad. It's just that it feels far from finished. So it never got to the really good parts.
To tell you the truth I didn't like the start of the comic that much either... But it got really good after some time. And the anime never made it that far...
I think that's a real shame.

@ muteKi

Aoi Hana and Sasameki Koto as well were good.
I think so too.
But the comics were better by far...

Octave would be great. I'd also love to see Pure Water Adolescence or Kase-san.
But probably never gonna happen...

Well... Kurau was great. Not your typical yuri anime but it had that yuri vibe...

I can eat whatever I want as well as long as I only eat when I'm hungry and stop when I'm full.
Pretty simple.

Black Forest cake is gone now ^^
Ate it all!
But there's some plum cake left if you want some,,,

@ Nezchan

They come here every few months and try to invite me over.
I really don't want to. But the talking woman – as I call her since her sidekick always changes and almost never speaks at all – is extremely nice and reasonable, apart from the fact that she doesn't accept me not wanting to join. I usually talk to her for a bit but always say that I'm not religious and don't intend to join any group – don't wanna call it a cult in front of her ^^ - but she still comes back any time they're around... Annoying.
And I'm too weak to be unfriendly and tell her that...

@ Galich & Nezchan

My mom told me the same thing. My grandmother used to be with them. When she left they got pretty nasty as well...

@ Blackkitty

What can I say, I'm the daughter of a pervert and a deviant... so... that should speak for itself ^^
Also... I'm part Italian... not making things any better...
I'm all about passion ;)

IT IS NOT! I totally disagree on this! They're the best, wittiest arguments I've ever seen! Love them! ^^

Oh, she is gorgeous! Totally weird, but at the same time extremely adorable.
I'll try to post a picture. Maybe there is a way even though I don't have any such accounts online...
I used to call her my little lesbian cat that barks. 'cause she's just as eccentric as a cat.
And she's a real diva! She thinks that everything belongs to her ^^

Of course I'm being lazy! That's what I do: being lazy! ^^
I thought maybe you could work some magic on me ;)
That's one hell of a big nutcracker you're gonna need! (^__^)b
Fun for you, I guess, but it still sounds good enough – we should do that!

The weekend started quite good. The weather was nice today. Last three days were all gray and wet... Today it felt like summer again. And I ate some Black Forest cake, so I can't complain (◦’ںˉ◦)

(I edit my posts to erase some typos... I hate typos! Never deleted a post before...)

@ ChocolateCakeLover

It usually takes them a few months to come back.
But up till now they've always returned! Unfortunately... ^^

That's right, you don't argue... You just outsmart people and render them speechless (^_-)b
I need to work on my own CCL style a little harder... Still a long way to go for me...

@ Rina

Well... as long as you enjoy them, it's all good, I guess ^^
But you're not alone. I sent a declaration of love to a good friend once too. I just wanted him to know how much I liked and missed him. I think he got it right, but I still felt kinda awkward afterwards... ;)
When I like someone, I want them to know, you know ^^
But some people can't handle that, it seems... o_O
Fucked up world we live in...

@ oliver

Oh, how sweet of you! (`･ω･´)
What kind of music do you like?
I think we never talked about that, right...?

(I totally did call it a bitch!) ;)

@ Galich

he he
I was sure you weren't gone! Just wanted to give you a little support there! ^^
Since I didn't know when you'd show up again...

Well... interpersonal stuff is the hardest after all...
Things between two people can become pretty awkward sometimes...

It's really hard to find a good doctor you can trust blindly... We had the same problem last year... Bad stuff happened probably because of that... No matter how much you confide in the abilities of your doctor, always read the information leaflet of the meds carefully and try to think about the dose they prescribed first. If it doesn't feel right, ask another doctor.
Things like that can save lives sometimes...

I managed to sleep 7 to 9 hours, 3 days in a row now...
I'm going in the right direction...
But now that I've said that it's probably all over again ^^

Hey, that music is quite good.
Not the kind that I usually listen to but it's feels kinda nostalgic... Used to watch a lot of war movies... Thanks!

************* EMERGENCY *************** EMERGENCY *****************
WE'VE LOST SOME MEMBERS! They've thrown themselves over board so that we could continue our mission! So don't look back! And don't let their sacrifices be in vain!!! (^_-)v

… kinda sad to see them all vanish into thin air... I was really glad that I finally found someone who was into electronica (music) as well... Now they're gone... T_T

Galich! Don't let life get to you! Don't let that bitch win!!! I'm sure you can find yourself a book that will help you out. If not, we're here ;)

Hi everyone! Hope you're having a great weekend!

@ ChocolateCakeLover

Oh, a pokèmon... it's been a while that I played one of those games... ^^

Maybe I'll actually do it – with the “outfit” that Old Fart has suggested – and try to throw myself at her, the next time she shows up ;)
Would be funny at least ^^

@ Z. Long

That's the problem with these Jehovah's Witnesses: They don't seem to get any hints... They're even more stubborn than me! o_O Outrageous! (^_-)v

Oh, I will... But I'd have to be in a really funny mood to actually do that ^^ But I absolutely love the thought of it! ;)

@ Rina

It's a peculiar situation you got yourself into mostly by mistake.

You're right, that's the good thing about people in this kind of situation: they tend to forget about things sooner or later... That's actually kinda sad but under those circumstances it does have it's benefits as well...

@ Blackkitty

Oh, there used to be a lot going on ^^ In my mind, I mean. But that's kinda all in the past now. I'm getting old... ;)

That wasn't a weak argument! It was a CCL kinda argument! And those are never weak! (╯‵Д′)╯

Uhhh... you're a real lady, huh...? Being all elegant and stuff... Sounds kinda nice. Maybe I will try it... But it will definitely take a lot of time... ^^

Unreliable, maybe, but my dog still is really cute! And if you attack me she will try to bite your heel (^_^) It's really cute to watch her do that. And she'll make weird noises as well ^^

I'd like to see it proven wrong myself ^^ So don't worry about it. No bother at all. (`･ω･´)
Try to crack me!

@ Utoptia

I feel you. man! Kinda mysterious...
I had that problem with Miki a lot... Every time I wanted to reply, her post was gone... Not easy to talk like that... T_T

And I back that up as well: Everyone's welcome here! No matter the age, gender, level of weirdness and/or madness! (◦’ںˉ◦)