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alexisomorphic
joined Nov 9, 2019

Just for general information and curiosity. How many of you actually use Dental Dams and Finger Condoms during sexy times?

I only use regular condoms for toys so I can be lazy with cleaning. All of my partners are people I'm in commited long term relationships with so I don't bother otherwise since none of us do things that could cause a pregnancy and I'm not going to spend my whole life not tasting my partners. I'd probably use them if I found a new casual partner.

alexisomorphic
joined Nov 9, 2019

This is great. Can't wait for more. I wonna be a teacher like that.

BUT!

Condoms are usueful also to be put on sex-toys! It makes them last longer and condoms can provide different feelings from usual!

Condoms are bomb for this, but if you have silicone toys (which are great because they have tons of benefits including being non porous and being able to be boiled to clean them) make sure to use non lubed condoms because they generally have silicone lube and you want to use water based lube with silicone toys. Both lubes are nice to have around tho cause I like silicone based better for everything else

^Yeah, I had abstinence based sex ed. I learned nothing! Most of what I know is from fanfic. And, there were lots of people having sex, but not safely. Some girls got pregnant and there were STDs and stuff.

I haven't heard about dental dams either.

Probably cause they're not really readily available. You can modify a condom to use in the same situation if you want to use one but can't easily find them.

alexisomorphic
joined Nov 9, 2019

One of the best things I've read here.

alexisomorphic
joined Nov 9, 2019

1 month later they got fired for fucking in the bathroom

alexisomorphic
joined Nov 9, 2019

Seriously though, who the fuck has sex in school anyways lol, I see all these hentai about students having sex in places like the storage room, homeroom after school, empty clubrooms as if they wouldn't get caught irl......unless?

I had sex in school like every other day of my last semester in highschool. Storage rooms, closets, bathrooms, the greenhouse, during class in the back row. There's options. The only times I got caught was after I basically didn't care at all and was a being of pure hubris. There were no consequences though because people would rather ignore a problem if they can.

i can understand behind closed doors like empty classrooms, storage rooms etc. but in the BACK ROW OF CLASS? LMFAOOOO

I'm not going to pretend I made good decisions lol. Hand stuff is totally doable without getting caught if you're good at hiding your expressions though. Although one time a guy asked my partner of they were laughing at him when actually they just came.

alexisomorphic
joined Nov 9, 2019

Wanting to kill yourself here is relatable, but I hope she puts on her big girl panties and realizes there's a lot of other people she could kill instead to solve things

alexisomorphic
joined Nov 9, 2019

Scars are cute, that's all

alexisomorphic
joined Nov 9, 2019

Seriously though, who the fuck has sex in school anyways lol, I see all these hentai about students having sex in places like the storage room, homeroom after school, empty clubrooms as if they wouldn't get caught irl......unless?

I had sex in school like every other day of my last semester in highschool. Storage rooms, closets, bathrooms, the greenhouse, during class in the back row. There's options. The only times I got caught was after I basically didn't care at all and was a being of pure hubris. There were no consequences though because people would rather ignore a problem if they can.

alexisomorphic
joined Nov 9, 2019

A love with an expiration date isn't love at all.

Spending your whole life waiting for someone that isn't going to pull the trigger and be with you is just self harm. As someone who spent 8 years waiting for someone, making it clear how long you're willing to put you're life on hold for love is honestly healthy.

alexisomorphic
joined Nov 9, 2019

I think this is another example of what has become a not uncommon trope in yuri stories: what might be called “fluffy blackmail.”

That is, the initial premise of the story involves something that technically is (and in real life would be) blackmail/coercion, but in the story the blackmailee quickly becomes an enthusiastic participant in whatever the blackmailer is “forcing” them to do, sometimes to the point where the “victim” even forgets that there was any coercion in the first place. (Morinaga Milk’s Secret of the Princess is a prime example of the latter.)

The appeal of this to some wlw kind of makes me think of the appeal of force fem stuff to some trans women. When you have a bit of internalized homo/transphobia, a story about being forced into it can make you feel less guilty. Idk maybe a bit of a stretch. I can also see this kind of stuff being appealing to wlw who don't want to make the first move.

joined Nov 9, 2019

Girl touching other girls breats: ok ok ok ok alright cool cool cool cool cool cool
The other girl kissing below the other girl's breats: wait sec honey that's gay

Unironically, kissing a girl's stomach is way gayer than groping her tits. Boobs are soft and squishy and fun to touch and I've been comfy enough with friends to play with each others platonically, including friends who were asexual. Meanwhile anyone I've kissed on the stomach I've been in a relationship or wanted to be in one with. Way more intimate.

alexisomorphic
joined Nov 9, 2019

I ship Tokyoin with Guillotine-chan

alexisomorphic
joined Nov 9, 2019

"Thank god i'm not working in that creepy company anymore!"

" So now that i'm unemployed, I should become a lesbian escort instead!!!"

Fucking random women who understand what they're paying for and respect you for what you're doing is a step up from working for a boss that wants to pressure you into things you didn't sign up for.

joined Nov 9, 2019

Oh wow Kanda is hot

alexisomorphic
joined Nov 9, 2019

That one girl's gonna end up with a eating disorder.

Interesting tho...

I mean it probably fits the definition of disordered eating already. It's also definitely questionable other ways as far as mental health goes.

joined Nov 9, 2019

Sometimes you're just a girl with a personality disorder manipulating another girl with a personality disorder into doing fucked up things to you. It be like that

alexisomorphic
joined Nov 9, 2019

Like people who say BDSM is sex when in actuality it is sex abuse...

I think you drank some TERF Kool-aid. As long as everything is safe sane and consensual, there's nothing abusive about BDSM

Good point but wrong use of "terf". Also can a mod come in and see to these ridiculously rude comments, they're getting really obnoxious

Like yeah it's not specificalog a trans exclusive point of view, but anti-kink, sex worker exclusive, and trans exclusive radical feminism tends to all come from the same kind of folk. (surprise, these are "feminist" stances that all align with conservative values)

alexisomorphic
joined Nov 9, 2019

ok real serious question here: do people actually keep their glasses on during sex??

Seriously, I need the answer to this question too.

Depends on the position. There's several where I want to see as much of my partner as possible and don't involve too much moving around on my part, so I keep mine on for those. Pretty much any position where I'm the passive party. Also if I'm just doing finger stuff I'd probably like to keep it on so I can easily see their face. Basically I just leave them on until they get in the way. Similar to tying back my hair.

Definitely agree with everyone else that the translation quality was oof :/ like I think one of the bigger issues was using almost no pronouns? Just seemed like the translator didn't speak English natively.

joined Nov 9, 2019

1500 hours is 62 days. Homeboy is a tryhard, but not quite on MMO levels of no life

alexisomorphic
joined Nov 9, 2019

"shut up, this is my universe and I make the rules"

What a fucking icon.

alexisomorphic
joined Nov 9, 2019

No trap card so we're all good.

Literally the first card was a trap card. I know you're trying to make a joke, but yeah

alexisomorphic
joined Nov 9, 2019

I mean, what was Airi expecting? Doing stuff like that in school? Girl, be creepy somewhere else

Let she who has never choked out another girl at school be the first to cast the stone

alexisomorphic
joined Nov 9, 2019

Though I'm not too sure whether it's been touched on, but does Airi just get her giggles off of causing any one pain or just Hina?

Airi enjoys Hina's pain, but I think Airi enjoys the fact that Hina "endures" for Airi specifically more than anything else.

Definitely this. It's why she gets off on the blindfold thing. Airi loves watching Hina endure the mental and emotional suffering/suspense of not knowing if Airi abandoned her, but still sitting there and obeying her anyway. It's the way that Hina values Airi's commands over Hina's need to escape whatever pain she's going through

alexisomorphic
joined Nov 9, 2019

If Airi doesn't straight up murder glasses she's a cuck.

Also wow is Airi realizing she has an actual romantic interest in her precious victim? Can't wait to wait half a year to find out

I think it pushes the idea of common decency. Like people who say BDSM is sex when in actuality it is sex abuse and not something to be championed,

Counterpoint: it's not real sex unless you use a machete

but something which should be addressed professional by mental health professional (and I'm not talking about fuzzy handcuffs and tickler feathers). I don't understand, are there no lines of decency which must not be shown as okay? As stuff like physically forcing insect into someone else's body until the vomit on themselves okay?

I mean Airi's actions aren't really praise worthy here. I think even the people who find the story interesting and even people who get turned on be this situation are aware that Airi's actions are at minimum bordering on abuse. In real life this situation is absolutely a traumatizing one. Speaking from experience doing stuff without properly discussed consent and limits is literally how you give someone ptsd

I am by far not a prude, but causing physical or mental pain to another and treating it as though it is the norm, is at the least irresponsible, and the worst....there are not words to describe. Does anyone worry that someone reading these types of stories here may encourage them to treat other women similarly possibly causing physical or mental trauma? I think this is far different than the shooting and violent video games, though I do not advocate rape scenes in video games. Maybe I am much too nice for the world these days. Humanists are archaic now?

You're allowed to not like things, you're allowed to feel sick seeing stuff like this. Being nice is a wonderful attribute, there's no such thing as being too nice for the world. That said there's only so much you can do and you should probably avoid media like this in the future. It will always exist, at most all you can affect is how available it is.

As for violence against women being normalized, that is an issue. There are absolutely both men and women who use bdsm being more common as a way to abuse their partners. I think more mainstream porn is the more responsible party there, and also not something you'll have much luck changing. At the end of the day the most meaningful solution to abuse is going to be working towards people having the material means to leave it, emotional support when they do so, and the knowledge to recognize what things are abusive. That last one I guess is a battle you could fight here, but again I don't think many of us are saying Airi isn't at abusive

As for physical and mental pain causing trauma. Like yeah it can, but in the context of someone you love doing it to you and you enduring it knowingly, with the ability to say stop, for them, it can just be the most wonderful thing and the most connected to someone I've been. Getting pushed down and clawed until I bleed has been wonderful for helping me deal with the actual trauma of a partner that never physically hurt me. You don't have to like it, but know that it has value for others

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alexisomorphic
joined Nov 9, 2019

Airi is the most relatable character I've ever seen on this website

Relatable?

As in I find she has a lot of traits that I see in myself and as such feel a connection to her and the events happening. Or rather that was my opinion as of chapter 7. Chapter 8 she's a pussy for freaking out that much and immediately cutting things off with the other girl. We'll see how things go I guess.

this is the most disgusting manga I've ever read
"just how much can highschoolers get fucked up" challenge was accepted and accomplished

Eh I did pretty similar in highschool, sometimes people are just terrible. Like idk that I'd say worse cause its not just a scale, but definitely more extreme and/or fucked up in some directions. Life just kinda be like that. I don't think this even accomplished the most fucked up high schoolers can be when compared to like probably even stuff that happens in whatever school is closest to you, you just don't hear about it cause people's lives and traumas are generally private.

But at the end of the day this is two people with something resembling consent. I'm not going to say that Airi isn't being abusive here, but I don't think just because the stuff happening here is extreme it's worse than say some more intense cases of bullying.

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