a succubus's natural enemy... someone on the ace spectrum
Is anyone else absolutely exhausted by the prevalance of "jealousy is an important aspect of romantic attraction and its a problem if you don't experience it"
No more than by the prevalence of "insecurity is a normal aspect of human psyche and the bedrock of most stories about relationships". :-)
Is the implication here that insecurity is rare and unusual? Cause I would say it seems like a thing that happens to most everyone at one time or another.
I think Koveras is saying insecurity is common in relationships, both in fiction and irl, which is part of jealously. So they're basically saying insecurity and jealously don't bother them because they're normal parts of being human and relationships.
Maybe I'm reading their response wrong though lol
No, you are absolutely right, thank you. :-) In my experience, both personal and second-hand, insecurities are very common, especially at the start of a relationship, because it always takes time to build genuine trust.