Haha, how do people react when they find out you're gay? Is there a "politically correct" reaction?

I don't know about "how should they react".. but I don't tell people that I am gay unless I truly know that they are fine with it, and it won't challenge them in anyway. The westerns I told them were busy investigating how is it being gay in my home country, then they proceed talking about their relationship and maybe seek an advice (by the way, even lesbians don't understand women XDD)
I have a list "Don'ts" when you know that a friend of yours is gay:

1- don't offer her your other gay friend's number
2- don't ask her if she is REALLY SURE
3- if she never been with men, never ask her to TRY first XD
4- don't ask her about kids and marriage
5- NEVER ask her who is the man in the relationship. I mean, this is the point of being a lesbian.. no man !
6- if she tells you she is gay, that doesn't necessarily mean she is attracted to every women ever walked on earth (actually some of us are very picky XD)
7- Don't treat her differently.. or be extra nice.. just be your normal self.

best reaction will be: "I knew you are gay :P" or "so?"

yoonie0104 is funny to me. She seems to contradict herself sometimes, nothing wrong with that though. XD

YUP.. she says that Libra is so not like her.. but helloooo XD

What?! Look at what Nami did for sumin and seju

trying to sleep with both of them ?

You think their relationship would had the current breakthrough without nami?!

probably not, Nammi always encouraged a lifestyle that's basically play play play to Sumin.

I think everyone should have a friend like nami: intelligent, good sense of humor, minimal bullshit.

like flirting with Sungji multiple occasions ? (even two of Sumin's ex at the time.. )

nami had a very brief moment of silence. Why? because she likes sumin but could not tell her. Showing a little sadness and vunerability there.

so not because she remembered her defeat with Seju?

Nami may even know sumin better than seju in some aspects.

when was that? by knowing that Sumin had feelings for Seju BY trying to sleep with her !!!!

Nami is closed to my ideal friend, someone who can lighten the mood and bring a new perspective.

I don't know.. in my book, if you try to flirt with a girl YOU know I have a crush on, and with my Ex. whom you suspect we still have feelings for each other and again the new Ex (in ch65).. this is multiple backstabbing.

who does she think she is publicly yabbying around a chaebol dating other women!! doesn't she think about the possible damages ?!

That's deep, Nora89. You've lived a substantial life.

Heheh.. really!
My friends call me boring.. XD
Speaking of which, I was being interrogated by a friend who had no idea that I am gay: "so, you have a crush on that dude .. no maybe the other one, or maybe you like that professor"
Kept rolling my eyes.. my other friend (who knows what's up).. laughed her ass out.. I was so drunk to make up a lie XD.. at least the hot waiteress was not around, otherwise she might indirectly be the reason I out myself XD

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Btw, yoonie who thinks she is straight, taught me a fun flirt about seeing a Victoria Secret's angel .. hehhe creative things XD

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hlama

Thanks professor Nora for the insightful information. Once again Nami is awesome!!!

Well, it also means that Nammi slept with waaay too many women to know by intuition. Nammi could be a cool person for parties but not a friend you wanna have.

The being in a long term relationship part at least. :) But you're right, there are pros and cons.

Long relationship.. long distance.. you get those amazing moments and a 1000 lonely night.. those caresses at the arrivals gates.. and those nasty fights over the phone.. arrrgh

Then.. you forget how to be by your ownanymore.. and the cracks in your false independence.

So maybe forgetting how to flirt is a good thing after all.. so you won't do the same mistake again.. even though you would still do it.

( I think the bartender Fucked me up.. hehehhe I am serious.. Martin gave me way too strong cocktails XD )

If you're talking about a certain peach of yours then yes...

~Reached level 99 in being lewd minded~

Chilled and nice ~
My mind is always lewd .. it suprises me when its not XD

I wonder who is that little troublemaker to be blamed for it? =_=

Hehe.. who do you think that is?

yoonie

This reminds me, the black box in the bed talk "To touch" "To kiss", WE STILL DONT KNOW WHOSE WORDS ARE THOSE#

not only this part.. but the part in ch85

Sumin: because you are sexy
Sungji: I think I've heard that one as well
Sumin: what? from who?
Sungji: can't remember...

hmmm..

hlama, Enk & yoonie

She does not seem excited about team leader 2.0 though.

Nope.. Sungji would never end up with the new TL.

A shocking twist for me would be sungji ends up with seju... But meh, two bottoms are boring.

But both Seju and Sungji can be top xDDDDDDDDD. They can, they just doesnt want to, lol

I am sure about:
Sumin (is service top, only bottoming for Seju)..
Nami (power top)..
Seju she is versatile (enjoys both, being a top and a bottom equally), she even requested it in ch54. (she did it ch14, ch4 too)
Sungji however, is bottom (the only time she wanted to top Sumin was to see that side that Seju saw in ch55.. & never ever tried again, so..)

Dawoon and her Ex are obviously two versatiles.

• to avoid any confusion: a Top is the one who provides the service. a bottom is the one who receives it. the physical position itself is NOT an indicator.

Service Top: provides whatever the recipients asks for
Power Top: skilled enough to top without the need to be instructed

being out of the market for a long time, intensifies flirts ignorance XD

I guess that's kind of a good thing right? XD

Not always..

lol A lot flirting happens in this forum.

sigh.. I miss the good part ALWAYS !! XD

being out of the market for a long time, intensifies flirts ignorance XD

How sad... I was ready for some fun...like the biggest fun ever in my life

Wait! Did I just miss a flirt ? O_0

Dammit..I keep doing that !
Anyways.. we are out of strawberry.. would you like some peach?

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on a side note~

in ch9: Seju teased Sumin about the gift that Sumin liked: "Hm? I just picked it because I liked it."

in ch86: "the type that I would hate the most"

I guess whatever type that Sumin "also" hate the most, will be the TL's type.. indeed, Sumin should know that !

is there anyone really who likes strawberry ice-cream

Of course that's gonna be me. Mind to feed me...m?

NOPE .. I don't want you dead XDDD (even then, this product is actually lactose free.. so rest assured, after having it, your guts won't suffer XDDD)

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A better threat would be: I will tie you up and take away your partner/vibrator right before that perfect, magical moment.

oh heeeeyyy XD hlama, heheh.. more lesbos in the house !

No mate, if you ever see my cat, the only thing you will do is get on your knees and kiss him,

I can't stand cats.. chances are, it's going to go the same route Ahn Chahee's case went XD

Es0teric

This is like watching your friend make terrible mistakes and then ending up with someone you don't like. x10 since I've never seen so much drama in my own reality of 36 years

hehe I'm going 28 next November.. and I've seen enough drama in my life.. even more twisted than WDTFS.. lucky them, they at least could leave Korea and try again somewhere nice. AND, Seju's father is okay with them as long as she lives..

roamsl

I tried, but i had a hard time. my eyes just couldn't so i gave up and now i have no idea what you wrote. shame ;)

I hope you would enjoy listening to despacito all night long in your dream.. just to wake up and see your cat who committed a suicide and left a goodbye message written with my handwriting in Meow language XD

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Enk

I gotta admit, Nora89 you are doing a really good job at convincing me that Sumin is a terrible girlfriend for Sungji.

but, I thought that was Team Gaji's doing not mine :P

let's take a little look:
http://imgur.com/a/hhiZt

and you know what.. I only took the obvious ones, I get lazy sometimes XD

I might be a Pink fan.. but this pink is just too yukkk.. why don't they replace it with coffee or mango.. I don't know maybe salty caramel flavor

:((
is there anyone really who likes strawberry ice-cream

cookie_mobster

Awwww, thanks a lot.

Okay, that's freaking adorable, I just have to say it. xD

see, hlama.. it's adorable and cute! I'm gonna make wite out great again XD

I kind of guessed that their first time was before Sumin's parents died just by looking at Seju's hair lenght.

the critical part that they had it first time during Sumin's birthday and the bartender incident happened almost a year later.. So, Sumin got the news in ch10. about her parents death (and ch10 was almost a year after ch8.. that's why we have other memories of them in bed.. like ch19, ch72 and I argue ch32)

(Is that wite out? People still use wite out? WTF)

YES, I buy them in a three-pack set yepppyy XDDD

I swear, there are sexier aspects in my personality besides wite out addiction and a terrible handwriting, sigh

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Ladies, and gentle ladies.. (and everyone in between)

I have been working on this to show that Sumin and Seju's first time DIDN'T happen during the same year Sumin's parents died.
(I was lazy, so I wrote it on a piece of paper) XD
http://imgur.com/a/HvLQ7

one negative comment about my handwriting and I will strangle your cat, and play Despacito in your dreams all night long.. I MEAN IT

so, chronologically we have the following:

Sumin giving Seju the ring
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Their first time having sex (at least 11 years ago)
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Sumin's parent's death ( at least a year later)

you don't believe me, fine.. take note of Seju's hair length in ch8 and compare it to ch10 and 11, 86.

hlama

Hate is a strong word. I doubt she means the male gender. She seems to get along well with her male employees. My guess is she means a personality type, gender may have something to do with it too.

possible.. but I know that she hates men especially those who have interest in her or belittle her. (blind date, the employee in ch79, and ch10 the bartender.. let alone her brothers)
I am aware why she hates all of them, it's just I get the vibe that Seju hates everyone who doesn't take her seriously or looks at her as a piece of meat (men + Nammi XD)

Me too. Hypothermia is a really wild guess. The "hints" Nora cited are not sufficient for the average readers, and author should know their target readers (at least that was what I was taught in school).

well, I'll also take Foxy's approach, sharing rather than convincing.. it's a very educated guess if we may say... but still a guess XD

Hmmm, was it because of 3 fingers or the thrust or the doggy position XD. According to Sumin, Seju's body liked it XD.

obviously, Sumin was taking a revenge for her hurt bride from ch3, Seju knew that there was something wrong.. I mean, I think Seju likes gentle sex like the one she dreamt about.

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Maybe "hate" as in sexually? That is a definite I think, but I'm not sure if that's what she meant in this case.

well, remember that in ch62, phone call.. she didn't like getting male's applications for the Team Leader's position (she hated it).. so, the type she would hate for the job includes MALES hehe.

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yoonie0104

Life lesson: Never hide anything from your GF xDDDD, she WILL know. Just tell her the truth and be done with it or dont do it at all.

the funnies part is: Sumin hid many things and got away with them.. such as the house ownership, her meeting with Seju in ch74, again the phone call she made behind Sungji's back in ch75, her meeting with Seju at a HOTEL in ch76.. lying to Sungji right on her face about not sharing the same space with Seju while conditioning Seju to be in the same space unless they are sleeping or she is working XDDD.. many lies !
(oh, I just counted the one after ch56 only)

But seriously though, have ever any of us seen a CEO going to work and wearing a sleeveless cropped top that conveniently reveals her belly button? Cause I can't tell if Seju is going to work or doing sth else

she went to work given her conversation with Sumin.. the Team Leader maybe invited her and she wanted to share the info with Sumin but the later cut her off (because then it will be obvious why Sumin suddenly called Seju for lunch XD..)
About Seju's clothing, this is weird I agree.. this was never Seju's office hours dress code.. AND the weather!
she has cold, she IS feeling cold.. why letting her belly showing out !! madness.. I know Gaji long enough to say this is not a mistake.

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Hha

One question though, have Sungji ever said something meaningful to Sumin like Seju did in the past like "you just need to be by my side", etc...?

in Sungji's defense, she only dated Sumin 4.5 months.. ONLY.
from ch24 (was their first date, and Sumin mentioned that it's one week before her birthday, so 5th of July).. and now you know that we are somewhere between the first and second week of November. ONLY 4.5 months.. can you really have any kind of requests ? actually, what Sungji asked Sumin was to tell her how she feels honestly in ch40. Guess, it was never easy for any of them.

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I still have my reservations about it, but I wouldn't bet against it either. If anything, I'm sure she didn't like it or really want it... You can't give consent if you're that drunk. I wonder how much she remembers of that incident.

mmhm.. yes sure. BUT, look at the very last panel of ch25 (it was after he, and Sumin left.. Seju is still covering herself with the blanket.. she was still cold or at least her temperature was low)

Speaking of the ending being hinted at since the beginning... Chapter 86 adds a new light to chapter 10 as well, showing how much the rings meant to each other.

very good. I remember saying that given what the ring meant to Sumin and how she defined it as a promise between her and Seju.. no wonder Seju felt like they were over upon Sumin's underestimation of it. "what's the big fuss about that stupid ring" and her cancelation to every future plan.. their life they wanted and their dreams.. and telling Seju to go alone instead. The whole conversation and her blaming Seju for her parent's death really were nightmares. The writer said that Seju had to go through alot during the time Sumin was grieving.. so even the preexisted condition between them before that day was truly hard on both of them.

back to the rings, do you know that Seju has both rings, her's and Sumin's?.. Foxy lady " Seju has to give Sumin's ring back"

True. Sumin has only been seen using toys once I believe and she didn't like it for various reasons.

remember in ch4? Seju was pleading for gentleness.. because 3 fingers were just too much! Gold Star indeed XD

Foxy lady and Orange

On another note, Foxy Lady you typing almost all your comments from your phone is quite a feat XDDD
I sure hope you have a big ass phone screen XDD

hahaha.. no.. it's a matter of preference, Orange ... i'm a minimalist. I like the concept of "function" since it gives meaning to an existence.So, i chose a phone that is smart enough to argue..it's called smartphone... hahaha...

I was also shocked by this fact!.. I mean, I might have a great photographic memory but I'm ridiculously short sighted (to a point that Lasik wasn't enough.. I still wear glasses) AND I can't hear well.. so basically phones are the worst devices I would ever have to deal with.
hehe I stopped buying them.. I am using my mom's older cell phone XD

you are so talented, gosh.. I can't catch up XD

maybe that's why I love big boobs.. I'm short sighted XD

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Haha, yes, I have noticed this and I could also speak for myself too.

Thanks a lot for having the time and interest to read the comments I make. <3

ok, I wonder what kind of rumors did you hear (Foxy.. what did you tell her ? T _ T )

lol Oh, curious, who was the first to come up with the hypothermia theory? Was it Foxy lady, you, or both reached the conclusion separately?

It was Foxy lady, I was sure that Seju didn't sleep with him.. at least willingly.. but Foxy is always 3 steps ahead of me XD .. then she asked me if I would bet against this theory, and I, a suicidal gambler.. refused XD

Could you imagine her reaction if she finds out...? Depending on the situation when she does, she might finally be happy.

not only that.. they will actually continue from where they left off in ch10.. how romantic is that! XD (but it really means that they won't start over.. but try again)

Yes, I remember too. That was pretty cool. It was regarding whether Sungji and Sumin were possible or not.

hehe.. I found the comment and added the link in the above comment.. YUP, you were sharp from the very beginning that a particular someone suspected you XDDD

Do you think her and Sumin ever used toys? Would that make a difference? XD

nope, I don't think so.. in ch10.. when Seju was slightly hurt by a single finger, Sumin's parents where in Malibu where they "died".. so they really didn't have the chance to stretch things before the bartender incident XD

Notice how after every chapter, people wait for your analysis?

weallyyy ~ shy face

XD Foxy lady was right, you are the Sumin of the forum (sorry you don't have a luxury car or someone like Seju).

ok, I wonder what kind of rumors did you hear (Foxy.. what did you tell her ? T _ T )

they can't be together unless they leave the country. AND they won't leave the country unless they are together.

Hint hint, right?

hehe, the chairman didn't have time to argue.. he shipped Saehyun all the way back from the States AND Sumin accepted at first, never declined.. just postponed it upon her knowledge that Seju didn't know. BUT, do you see Sumin looking for a job ?! XD

Wow, I got that right for once! Awesome.

I honestly thought that you always have a sharp mind.. this is not a surprise. ( I remember when we first discussed WDTFS together and I answered a question that you didn't ask because I knew you were logical and would ask it)

But I haven't seen one happen to a lesbian who never slept with a man before that. If anything, it would have been with another woman.

as far as I know, a single finger hurt her a little in ch10 even though she was very turned on. So..

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