I don’t understand the mentality of someone who reads a harem series and doesn’t want it to end with a polycule.
Do they just enjoy watching half the characters get their hearts broken or something? I’m genuinely curious what they get out of it.
(Obviously not everything has to be polyam, but it’s really underrepresented in media, so I’d like to see more of it and harem series are pretty much halfway there already so,)
When you watch a sport tournament then you know that everyone but the winner is gonna be sad about it
But that's not why you watch it
This kinda highlights a key difference between a polyam mindset and a mono one. The idea that love is competitive, exclusive and finite. In our case everyone can be a winner, there are no losers and instead of divisive, love is multiplicative and only grows when shared among more people.
That's the ideal of course and relationships are never that easy/clear cut but on a fundamental level that's how it feels
I certainly don't see love as finite but I'm not (pardon my language) hippe enough to think that you can have that kind of relationship with everyone you have an interest in, bland more importantly the other girls all have to like each other as well, if they don't then it's a Haram and those aren't about love
And of course there is the part were these kinds of stories are set up to be about the excitement of rooting for your team for the sake of having an exciting read
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