If when someone implies that a work you like may be transmisogynistic (which, again, it comes with the genre) you react by shutting them down while making them seem crazy, as another trans poster, that makes me wary of you. What was the purpose of your reply other than to make fun of them because of a hypothetical ally who could feel alienated by their post? I think trans people, especially transfems, need to be afforded more patience than others.
the purpose of my reply is to call-out a rube behavior that I perceive as not acceptable. there's plenty of ways to present this opinion that doesn't involve in insulting everybody else. I truly believe there has to be a reasonable middle-ground between groveling pleads and condescending insults one could talk in, maybe even lean towards the latter if you want but just don't fully go all in to that side.
this reply makes it seem like you are one of those people who thinks that, like I've said, "as long as your cause is just & your heart is pure you can simply insult anyone and everyone around you and if they did not like that then they're simply a lesser community member or ally who crumbles and defects the moment their little feelings are hurt." but perhaps I'm wrong in this assessment. again, I disagree with this line of thinking.
still, at least you are trying to be respectful and I can at least try to appreciate that. you can think of me however you want, that's not gonna change the fact that I will continue to do no harm towards the community, unless you consider me defending myself thus as doing harm.
as for the work itself, I think there's no other reasonable reading for Kitano than that she's a trans girl especially from what I've read in chapter 2, in spite what the author would've intended (be it from preference, ignorance, or outright bias). even though I selfishly more wish to see genderfluid characters in works like this (even though that's probably even further from the author intention) who can be comfortable in either presentations. on a side note I also read Crossplay Love because of this but it's increasingly obvious that Hanae's also very trans-girl-coded (which, good for her, I mean there's literally no other way to read the line to her sister "you're lucky, you can be a girl all the time" as anything but that. (on a side-side note that work is also pro-trans and queer and contains much less or perhaps none at all of the vulgarity this one contains)). way earlier in the thread I was just trying to defend the fact that we as fans can try to interpret these how we want especially if it doesn't come from a place of bigotry.
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