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joined Jan 3, 2019

This one hits different now that my cat, that we had since I was turning 11, passed away last year. She lived to be about 19 years old. Couldn't get through this one without sobbing.

Glass%20drum
joined Jan 3, 2019

Reading this back over, I'm kind of wondering if Yoshioka was experiencing comphet to a degree. That's not to undermine her potential bisexuality (I am bi) and it's not to undermine her potential for being poly (I'm dating someone who's poly), those are valid readings of the story. This is just a potential alternative way of reading it.

Yoshioka was seemingly never satisfied with men, and she never had a romantic relationship with any she had previously been with that we know of. It looks as though those relationships were purely sexual. We don't know how she engaged with men either, but we do know how she engaged with Yuka. Yoshioka was the instigator, the "top," I guess you could say, and Yuka always goes along with it and in doing so, took on the more traditionally "feminine" role. Yoshioka had moments where she'd mention that Yuka - in being stereotypically "feminine" - was making her horny, and for her to not sleep with anyone else since moving in with Yuka, she's clearly being satisfied by Yuka sexually, and possibly romantically too.

It's something that none of the men Yoshioka saw ever managed to achieve, which makes me wonder, was Yoshioka mostly seeking male attention out because the attention made her feel good, but because she is actually a lesbian, the sex was never fulfilling in the way that it is with Yuka. Kind of like, if anyone is familiar with the lesbian YouTuber Alayna Joy and her story. She mistook enjoying attention for sexual attraction toward the opposite sex, so sought that out, but now that Yoshioka has experienced a lesbian relationship, she is only just now coming to realise her own feelings and her own capacity for romantic and sexual attractions that are more in line with her "true" sexuality. Lesbianism likely wasn't even on her radar as an option until Yuka, after all.

Yuka had her "a-ha" moment in the first chapter, but maybe this "I haven't seen anyone else since moving in with you," thing is the beginning of Yoshioka's "a-ha" moment. The relationship is still early days, it would be nice to have another chapter from Yoshioka's perspective as she realises her feelings for Yuka more and more.

Glass%20drum
joined Jan 3, 2019

Ugly mermaid? No bloodlust in the main love interest? No sparklies???

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joined Jan 3, 2019

What's up with people in these forums lately? Does anyone get this mad at comedy shows and movies whenever they depict a murder and play it off for laughs, but they don't condescend to the audience enough, lecturing about how murder is bad and wrong and we absolutely should not emulate the murderer in real life? Is this a thing that I am unaware of? Or is it a unique phenomenon to Westerners that pretend to like Japanese content, but really don't?

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joined Jan 3, 2019

Feeling bad for Satsuki, since it's not like he can help his attraction. It's possible he's in some way not straight, though. I mean, for a while I was attracted to this fairly feminine gay boy back in my youth (ew, feeling old rn) and I liked feminine guys a lot more than I do now, and the biggest reason for that is because I turned out to be bisexual and I was redirecting my attraction for women onto feminine guys.

Based on his reasons for liking Rika, his gender might not even be as much of a factor as Satsuki presumes. He seems to like Rika for who he is but, y'know, comphet is a thing. So Satsuki probably presumes he, as a "straight" man, must be attracted to Rika because he's afab; even though there are other possibilities that would allow for Satsuki to be attracted to Rika without presuming that he must be viewing Rika as a "girl" on some level.

Like...bruh, you could just be not-straight. Rika's trans manliness could be part of the reason you find him attractive. Consider. Please.

Glass%20drum
joined Jan 3, 2019

Here we go again. Yuri is yuri. BL is BL. There's no such thing like BL yuri. We don't need another drama that started with that shitty BL anthology.

Then don't try and start one here.

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joined Jan 3, 2019

Everything is making me cry these days.

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joined Jan 3, 2019

Chapter not long enough. :(

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joined Jan 3, 2019

It's Manio, huh? Glad to see more from them, but I can't get over this intense feeling of dread over whatever they have in store for us.

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joined Jan 3, 2019

Congratulations to the new parents!

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joined Jan 3, 2019

This manga is very good, in a way that's hard to describe without coming across as pretentious lol. The story, imo, succeeded in making us (or at least this is how I felt while reading) feel towards the story, how the main characters felt for each other.

There was a sense of beauty in the suffering of the main characters, there was a fascination with the one who become obsessed with watching and meddling in the lives of others, and there was a feeling of great distain for the one who hated and cast judgement upon everyone else.

A cute, beautiful, yet disgusting and deeply disturbing story. I can hardly bring myself to go back to look at the last few pages, but a morbid curiosity is almost pulling me to go back. Weirdly similar to how Ai must have felt about Hina.

Glass%20drum
joined Jan 3, 2019

I don't want it to be a case of "they were both lesbians all along!" We have stories like that already, and there will be more. Genuine polyamorous/bisexual stories are a lot more rare by comparison.

Here's a possibly controversial take that people in the comment section seem to be looking for:

Maybe those stories are more rare because they more rarely work out in reality? Most people who say they're bisexual are often in a pretty darn straight looking relationship, and can't be bothered to foster a long-term poly one. They usually just want a fling. And being in a straight relationship is easier to come by then a gay one.

It's "rare" in reality because both bisexuality and polyamory are actively discouraged by society.

Glass%20drum
joined Jan 3, 2019

Sorry, I don't remember their names easily just now and I'm too lazy to go and check. I hope they don't ditch the polyamory themes, and have it be the case that the bride-to-be picks the lady wedding planner over all of her other partners. I really hope this story continues to explore the complexities of (discovering) polyamory, especially as closeted bisexuals.

I don't want it to be a case of "they were both lesbians all along!" We have stories like that already, and there will be more. Genuine polyamorous/bisexual stories are a lot more rare by comparison.

Jae
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joined Jan 3, 2019

Miki is right, Aoi's expression is chef's kiss perfect. I love it. I love stories like these where there is no real threat, everyone is safe (more or less) and happy, but the twisted nature of it all unlocks a character's kinks. Degenerate M girls are best girls.

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joined Jan 3, 2019

It was cute and fun, but I think I would have marginally preferred it if senpai remembered as though it did happen and been like "oh, so the time slip finally happened for you, huh? Guess you're gonna need help catching up." Or something like that. It wouldn't have made the time travel mechanics make any more logistical sense or anything like that, but I think it would've helped with suspension of disbelief just a little bit. Plus it would have been nice for the two of them to both still know and remember the events of the series properly, imo.

Glass%20drum
joined Jan 3, 2019

Jae posted:

If the yuri is ever properly established, I'd like to see the "het" tag replaced with the "bisexual" tag tbh.

We treat these tags additively, so the Het tag would remain but the Bisexual tag would be added. If that's the case, that is. It's possible nobody here is actually bi at all, very hard to say where this story is going. We'll see!

That's fair, especially since from the guy partners' perspectives, it would still be het on their end of the relationship. I just had a small kneejerk reaction because of all the "bihet" nonsense I've been exposed to on other sites. ^^'

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joined Jan 3, 2019

If the yuri is ever properly established, I'd like to see the "het" tag replaced with the "bisexual" tag tbh. So far, the way they've shown mc with her fiancé, they both seem pretty comfortable in their intimacy. I'd like that to stay the case, since we don't see much bi polyamorous rep, well, anywhere really.

I know I've personally felt more trapped to appear monogamous - though I wouldn't say I was polyamorous either - because the people in my life bought into the idea that bisexuals are all cheaters and greedy and such. If I do find that I have the capacity to be in polyamorous relationships, then I know that it'd just feed into those negative stereotypes, which is sad and frustrating. So more fictional rep would be pretty nice.

We'll see how it goes.

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joined Jan 3, 2019

Im kinda mad bc the mc is so weak like, she let her mom be like that with her and she don't even say something

Definitely said by someone who has never had psychologically abusive parents. Lucky for you. I'm so glad for you.

Jae
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joined Jan 3, 2019

That was very, very nice. My only complaint is that it wasn't 50 pages longer.

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joined Jan 3, 2019

I'm here for this.

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joined Jan 3, 2019

This manga is quite sweet, but very wooden.

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joined Jan 3, 2019

This was hot. Now, if only I could find myself a cutie to tease like that.

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joined Jan 3, 2019

This was delicious as sin, thank you, Kodama~ I was especially delighted by the school grill's priorities, some heavy philosophical stuff mentioned in passing --> "What does that mean...?" --> "Besides that, Shiori-san's boobs are huge... They're so pretty..."

As to all the hate in this thread...

It was blindingly obvious for a long time what Kodama's preferences are.

"I wanted her to be even more garbage."
"...my personal elements of moe."
"Pretty girl with long, wavy hair. / Yandere. / Big tits."
"Therefore, love-hate, soap opera drama...!"
"Be my slave." "Here, I'll r*pe you."
"I just love characters like Ririko, who are cute but have a naturally bad personality."

She can write light fluff, she just does not want to. The number of people that, time and time again, wander into her works somehow expecting Kodama to not be Kodama never ceases to amaze me. She likes soap opera (which is to say, crappy dorama), she likes hot grills with bad personalities, she likes cheating. If that is not your cup of tea, like, do not read her works, simple as that. Bonus points for each doujin being tagged with all the necessary tags. You have only your own idiocy to blame, dear haters.

And lmao at all the "objective truth" and "everyone hates her" crap, there is obviously an audience that appreciates her works, as demonstrated in this very thread, and, you know, by the fact she still produces such content after all these years. Granted, she caters to specific tastes, but those tastes do exist. Deal with it.

As for her spreading bi-hatred, here is the thing. On the surface, you seem to have a point. I am one of those people that get peeved at the usual portrayal of bi people in gay manga, as perpetual cheaters who usually leave their partner for the opposite sex. As a bi person myself, it does annoy me to no ends at times. But, and here is the point, I never got that feeling with Kodama's works. It could be because she deliberately makes her characters as garbage as possible, maybe it is because of something else, but I never got the "she is doing the bi people a disservice" feeling. Her works are exactly what she wants them to be, soap opera. Honestly, do you watch soap opera for its accurate and deep social commentary?

This is the best reply as far as I can see, but for the biphobia? I disagree. It doesn't really mean much, since I can't speak for everyone, but I am bisexual (and my boyfriend is polyamorous) and I don't see it in that way. I don't see it as being biphobic. The reason being Japanese culture at large, which isn't necessarily bad, just different from what we are used to. It's true that a lot of Japanese people marry out of convenience and not love, and to do what is expected of them for the sake of tradition and such, but will go on to have fulfilling romantic relationships in varying degrees of secrecy. This is doubly true for LGBT folk who still aren't exactly accepted in the same way as they are in the West, though this is improving, which even Kodama has acknowledged in some of her more recent work in which two women get married.

We don't really know much about the married character's situation in this specific oneshot, but it read that way to me, with Japanese culture in mind. Her husbando might even know already what her deal is, and might not even care provided she fulfills her expected societal duties. She could be 100% lesbian for all we know, but has her reasons for not being an activist by attempting to live true to that lifestyle in a country that still doesn't quite accept it.

I will say that I find some of the comments here (not the one I quoted, I agree with much of that reply) to be much more biphobic than anything I've read of Kodama's, especially since we're often only given a glimpse of context and intention. I don't think I've even seen one instance of a Kodama character outright stating what their sexuality is, unless I'm forgetting. So I'm reluctant to even call anyone in a oneshot like this bisexual to begin with - epecially given cultural context.

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joined Jan 3, 2019

Kase looking all irritated is my new fetish.

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joined Jan 3, 2019

Man, I love the reaction to my last post. Thank you.