I have read The Tenant of Wildfell Hall and I think it's one of my favorite books
I see you're a woman of culture as well. (ღˇ◡ˇ)~♥ It's one of my all-time favorites, too!
and the reason it works is because the problematic character escalates so much in his behavior that he is basically unredeemable and also because the story frames that whole relationship as a flashback and in fact it starts with the unproblematic love interest You could also argue that the female character is a bit like Hiroko in this case because she hides that she is actually married and left her husband because she couldn't divorce him and rejects the love interest for this reason even though she likes him.
Good analysis. Anne Brontë's female characters never were all about love and romance, they weren't unidimensional beings. Helen had other priorities than love. Agnes Grey also was first and foremost about her work.
"One rarely falls in love without being as much attracted to what is interestingly wrong with someone as what is objectively healthy." The Course of Love, Alain de Botton.
Hiroko is indeed problematic but she isn't a toxic person who wants to manipulate Ayaka. She rejects Ayaka because she knows this.
There's one difference between Hiroko and the male leads in novels by Charlotte or Emily. Their typical toxic lead is problematic because he has one big problem that ruins everything for him, his life and the lives of his loved ones. Hiroko, on the other hand, has a number of small problems that pile up and weight down on her good judgment. Some of those have only been hinted at for now and we don't know the details—except that they have been messing up her love life for years. I think this is why we can say she's not really a toxic person... she's more like a lesbian disaster, haha.
Now I don't exactly agree with the formula of a girl liking a broken person and trying to fix them no matter what. It doesn't give a great message and that's not what anyone should be doing. That's why I hope to see Ayaka work on herself in a way and remain friendly with Hiroko without pursuing her anymore. These tropes of fixing the broken person or chasing the girl till she says yes are very old and kinda ridiculous since they are completely out of touch with reality.
Mhhm, yeah. Really old tropes, with big historical roots, and somehow really popular today as well, hahaha. In those old stories, the violent or alcoholic douchebag just needs to meet the right woman who will heal his inner scars with love, understanding and devotion. It doesn't work like that irl, which somehow doesn't detriment the everlasting popularity of the trope.
It would be nice if Ayaka could make a clear-cut choice here: stop her romantic advances and become a good friend of Hiroko's. Another chance may come up in the future, after they begin to be closer and she gets to know her better. I wouldn't mind such a development at all.
last edited at Jun 18, 2023 5:10AM