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I need Stinking Rich Marie-chan for my life

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What kind of heaven is thiss (。・//ε//・。)

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I wish they can live altogether at a big house (〜 ̄▽ ̄)〜 chill pill

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This manga is depressive yet addictive as hell

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That's a real sag for you ¯_( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)_/¯

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synergy discussion 11 Nov 14:52
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This is perfection!!

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Oh yes...

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would pretty much be perfect if there was no smoking

what do you have against smoking ?

Maybe they love censoring?

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Liked it, but I hate when “virginity” for women is based on whether or not you’ve had sex with a man.

Yeah, I was thinking I just misunderstood the first time virginity got mentioned early on but when the girl mentioned how she was still a virgin even after sleeping with the other girl I was like "damn..."

Ohh i thought she said that she was a virgin! Woa didn't notice. I hope that it isn't a translation error

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It's been age.
Feel like i'm a maiden once again ( º言º)

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School Zone discussion 05 Oct 02:05
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Hinase is so cute in that outfit, holy shit! <3

Yesssssss (´ε` ʃƪ)♡

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I think you miss my point.

I guess that's what I get for reading thread randomly and trying to join discussion in the middle without reading everything.

I'm sorry i was too suffocating about my arguments, once i go, it's hard to stop.. I also contradict myself a lot, thank you for keep it up with me til this point.

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And to continue your point, for me the "real" ace is someone who view "eating" as just some meaningless activities.

Not to be rude, but maybe the issue is that instead of trying to determinate who is and isn't "real" ace by yourself and what feels correct to you, you should just listen to people who actually are ace and what they say their experience is like? Alternatively trying to find and read some study or research or something.

I think the issue with this and other similar things, is that people want to have very narrow and specific definition/label for everything, but it just doesn't work that way. Every person experiences love, attraction and their sexuality differently.

I think you miss my point. There are nothing like a correct way to define ace for me, it's just not something correct in linguistic point of view. If ace were "invented", you know that it mean to convey a message so people will not be confuse about this term.
My point here is instead of usinh a term for a specific meaning, why dont you try digging more into what is borderline in those terms, and invent something else more precisely (in term of language). I did mention that there could be a whole spectrum of asexuality and sexuality that we might missed, if you want to use asexuality for everything ace identified find logic to them relatively.

I never use "ace" for labeling people. I said "real ace" which is abreviation for real asexuality as how it were invented linguisticaly. And what insterests me in this whole conversations, is to understand which continuium lying between asexuality and sexuality spectrum. And what it does for our identity construction?
You only see label in language vocabulary, but i see it as a way to think and construct your identity, as long as thinking is also a inner exercise. You don't need this but somebody else might does.
Finally, i just want to say that english isnt my native language, nor my second, so that's why i might seem a nazi vocabulary for you. I'm just trying to understand how this word means for you now after all its history, and how it can be translated and interpretef most precisely.

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They said "have" not "enjoy". Just because you can do something, doesn't mean you enjoy it. Imagine eating a food that you are neutral for. You don't particularity love or even like it, but it's not like you hate or dislike it either. You're fully capable of eating it and filling your stomach with it, but you don't necessary enjoy eating it.

I'm sorry but you missed this conversation:

Not really. I'm not ace myself, but ace people only don't experience sexual attraction. They can still engage in or even enjoy sexual acts.

Credit for me knowing this goes to r/AskReddit.

There are ace who claimed that they can even "enjoy" sexual acts. That's why it's puzzling me. Of course every thing is edible if it isn't poisonous or allergic, we get it already.

And to continue your point, for me the "real" ace is someone who view "eating" as just some meaningless activities. It's like they have neutral feeling for the whose "eating" processus. If it's temporary, you call it "losing appetit". It it's nature born or a permanent transformation, you call it "asexual". It was my classic definition for ace until somebody did tell me that an extremely low libido (hence "appetit") can be called ace too. That's what's confusing me, but in an interesting way.
And for this exemple, romance life could be comparing to "drinking" and intellectual life could be "breathing".. Etc

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Should we considering ace is a part of sexuality spectrum, or totally outside?
I think this point is the one that make ace confusing. A-sexual is the negative form of sexual so it should not be considering something inside of sexuality spectrum. If it is inside, it should be other name, but not ace.

Language is weird, making supposedly strict rules, and at least as many exepcions.

By this question instead of critic how language are used wrongly, i want to say that we might miss the real spectrum of a-sexuality, and some obscure part of sexuality spectrum that mingle with ace spectrum. So a lot more room to explore

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I mean sexuality is a spectrum, so not every asexual person will have the same feelings about sex.
And I don’t know if this analogy would make sense, but it’s kind of like a person who doesn’t necessarily like desserts, but can still enjoy eating a slice of cake once in a while.

I thought for a while that your exemple is more plausible and clearer, but when i rethink about it, there are a big loop here:
Should we considering ace is a part of sexuality spectrum, or totally outside?
I think this point is the one that make ace confusing. A-sexual is the negative form of sexual so it should not be considering something inside of sexuality spectrum. If it is inside, it should be other name, but not ace.

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Or she could be the rarely-if-ever portrayed asexual lesbian and being thrown off by the tired old love = sexual desire bullshit. As if romance has to involve sex.

The Puritans got your back.

Ya’ll really can’t understand the concept of someone not being horny all the time, sad

"Not being horny all the time" isn't asexual definition at all. Asexual from my point of view is a zero tolerence for sexual act. It's very different

Zero interest in sexual acts. We can still have sex, we just don’t have desire for it.

This make me think a lots. It's very interesting, yet very puzzling. I try hard to dig deep into how you can enjoys someting yet not have any desire for it, without being on the puritans side.

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Or she could be the rarely-if-ever portrayed asexual lesbian and being thrown off by the tired old love = sexual desire bullshit. As if romance has to involve sex.

The Puritans got your back.

Ya’ll really can’t understand the concept of someone not being horny all the time, sad

"Not being horny all the time" isn't asexual definition at all. Asexual from my point of view is a zero tolerence for sexual act. It's very different

Not really. I'm not ace myself, but ace people only don't experience sexual attraction. They can still engage in or even enjoy sexual acts.

Credit for me knowing this goes to r/AskReddit.

I might meet somes extreme cases of ace then. They really have zero tolerance for sexual act, and this is not something post traumatic like, total natural. If you force them to, they found it disgusting and prefer to avoid it, even how hard they love your body and want to touch your parts. But it just stop at cuddling, and end. I dont know if someone who doesn't experience sexual attraction but does enjoy sexual acts can firmly call themself ace. I just can't class them on ace representative, i might say that they have low libido, but that's all.

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Or she could be the rarely-if-ever portrayed asexual lesbian and being thrown off by the tired old love = sexual desire bullshit. As if romance has to involve sex.

The Puritans got your back.

Ya’ll really can’t understand the concept of someone not being horny all the time, sad

"Not being horny all the time" isn't asexual definition at all. Asexual from my point of view is a zero tolerence for sexual act. It's very different

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The lil' sister must have a crush on Fukka for sure

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(Everyone either saying nice, debating about morality or being happy there'll be more chapters, meanwhile I'm here thinking "Damn, I hope at least one of the future chapters features anal").

Just like one mind

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I'm poly but this is confusing me as hell. Too quick?

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This is bliss (ノ´ヮ`)ノ*: ・゚

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This reversal kanda-kun and sadist satomi is precious ♡(> ਊ<)♡

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Wonderdullllll