I thought it was pretty mean of Tomo's dad to refer to her as a monkey, especially when he said "See how far you can escape." I figured she was just trying to run away from him and start anew.... I totally didn't think she was so depressed to the point of being suicidal though.
The monkey thing is a reference to the legend of Sun Wu Kong, the Monkey-king.
In the tale "A journey to the West", Buddha makes a bet with Sun Wu Kong that he cannot escape from his palm.
He accepts and jumps from the palm to the end of the world, being sure that he escaped. There, he finds 5 pillars and he thinks he reached the end of heaven. He writes something akin to "Kilroy was here" on one of the pillars, then jumps back on the hand of Buddha. There he finds his writing and realizes that the five pillars were Buddha's fingers all along and that he never left his hand at all.
What the father says is that running far away doesn't mean you can escape from your problems. It doesn't refer to himself.
Edit: ^ Eh... beat me to it.
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