Fly by Yuri
joined Mar 29, 2013
Time for my two cents (err, two comments) from the peanut gallery.
First, I doubt anyone seriously considers that surgery without thinking long and hard about it. And denying the surgery, or even postponing it longer than necessary, can be very destructive to that person's mental well being. If they lose hope, it can even be fatal. (The same thing happens if someone receives the surgery who shouldn't have, so it's serious business.)
Second, the "moral" thing to do (at least according to others) is almost always to sacrifice yourself for the "good" of others. That doesn't sound very moral to me, and so I tend to get suspicious when people moralize. Now I'll moralize; I think a person should try hard to take into account how there actions affect others, but I don't think anyone should be expected to sacrifice themselves or what's most precious to them for the good of others.
Edit: I've picked up the impression that that surgery has only been legal in Japan for a few years now.
Edit 2: While nosing around trying to confirm that (which I failed to do), I came across the tidbit that a person cannot have their sex legally changed in Japan unless they are both unmarried and with no minor children. (Wait to have some children first? Well, she could still get the surgery, she would just have to remain legally male.)
last edited at Feb 19, 2015 3:40PM