Dude if you "relent" to doing something it is by definition not something you want to do in the first place. She's a lesbian for christ's sake I somehow doubt she wanted to suck a dude's dick anymore than a straight dude would. And anything your partner isn't comfortable with you doing to their body is crossing the line.
First off, you're just marking words. Being unwilling to do something does not inherently mean that doing said thing would be torturous nor that being convinced to do it would equal "being forced to do something against your will."
I'm currently unwilling to get up and grab a drink from the kitchen because it's a bother, but I might relent to doing it if my sister asks me to go grab one for her. Does that mean my sister just forced me to perform manual labour on her behalf? What a toxic bitch, I've been victimized!
Secondly, we have been given absolutely no indication that her Ex boyfriend was in any way an awful person, nor that she dated him while knowing she was lesbian. If anything, the implication given is that she realized that she's gay during the relationship and that's why they broke up. Not because of some abuse or drama bullshit, but because they simply weren't compatible. Furthermore, there's likewise no indication given anywhere that her Ex knew that she was gay at the time he asked for a blowjob, and asking one's significant other for a sexual favour is in no way abusive, coercive or dubious behaviour in itself. It can become those things if one is forceful, but we have seen absolutely nothing in the story to indicate that her Ex ever did anything worse than ask nicely. Which is entirely goddamn fine to do.
Odds are her Ex simply operates on the same logic that 99% of real people do. Which is to say, he asked if she'd be willing to do something for him and if she doesn't want to, she'll just say no.
You're just assuming that she firmly rejected the "disgusting god-awful suggestion" and he didn't care, which is ultimately just you demonizing a character because of your own damn prejudices.
*I'm only calling her a lesbian rather than bisexual because the story implies it to be the case rather strongly.
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