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Probably what bothers me the most is that what he did was a low key ejecting Ayano from the closet to her sister
How ? He didn't say anything about that matter, if anything it stay vague as hell. And i found very quick to jump on the husband for that when most ofthe fault is on Ayano, who go to say at who want to heard it that she cheat on her husband. I mean that she said to her husband,it's normal. It's the kind of thing you had to go trought at two but then she goes saying to her mother in law and her sister in law. She doesn't really have to do it but she does anyway. Plus after she cheats the first time, instead of telling Akari directly she have a husband. She come back to the SAME bar, knowning Akari will be here, with her husband.
You can blame the husband for giving his sister the bar location but remember that the sister wouldn't have ask in the first place if Ayano didn't say anything.
How? he may not directly said anything but he was very certain of what Kaede would found out when she got there, he knew and that was entirelly his idea, Kaede never asked anything about the person that was involved in the affair, and that is leaving out the potential suffering and embarrasment he was sending Akari's way since he had no idea if Kaede was going to make a scene or not, he simply took a chance and sent her there.
Ayano is doing a blunder after another and I think right now she's about to do one once again because she refuses to be decisive about what she wants, she has to make things clear with both her husband and akari or just cut it off.
I'm just saying that being less wrong than Ayano doesn't make his last action right, it was blunder on his part, even if rationalized and justified by the blunders commited against him.
out of all this happening I really feel for Akari tho, hurt comming her way once again.
the fact that we have so much to discuss about this is one of the reasons I love this title, and I like to get in on the character's motives and reasons.
Every chapter of this breathtakingly rendered slow-motion trainwreck leaves me needing more. This was definitely not a virtuous, or even smart, move by the husband, but you have to figure...he is probably desperate to talk about this to somebody, and - in typical male fashion - if he has any other male friends, he would probably not be comfortable admitting to any of them that his wife cheated on him, let alone with a woman.
And something else: he probably expects his sister-in-law to relish having something "over" a family member and would turn on Aya, because that's what would happen in HIS family. It doesn't occur to him that, push come to shove, she'll side with supporting her sister.
Why does everybody think the husband is a bad guy? Honestly, though, he seems like the most decent person out of the three. He loves Ayano and wants her to be happy, he's always talked to her and asked her what she wants, then Ayano fucked up bad and he's even trying to cope with it somehow. He hasn't given me one reason to dislike him.
what he did this chapter was pretty shitty I think, if ayano wanted to talk with her sister she would, and he knew that she didn't say anything to Kaede, he went as far as being all cryptic and sending her to the bar for shock value, if he just wanted to talk to someone he would have been streightforward with Kaede and just tell her what it was. Maybe he didn't act sooner because he couldn't believe or he was a bit of a coward to break up or get mad over it, but I think this first act of passive agressiveness from him won't be the last
He does get bonus points for cowardice but it may actually be too early to even accuse him of malicious intent since we are not privy to why he did it. Even if he was aiming to shit stir the wrongness of his actions is still absolutely dwarfed by those of his wife, We have someone who has been horribly betrayed and intentionally wronged by his spouse repaying that betrayal with what is at worst some very low grade passive aggressiveness that doesn't really even cross any lines like lying. I mean as far as throwing a passive aggressive punch goes that's barely a flick in the nose and that's assuming he had bad intentions. He may legitimately be trying to get his sister's input on the whole thing and is too afraid to face his wife's elicit lover himself.,
Probably what bothers me the most is that what he did was a low key ejecting Ayano from the closet to her sister, like I said, if Ayano was confortable in discussing that part she would, and I don't think that being cheated gives him the right to do that, you don't suddenly have the right to punish someone if you were cheated on and the cheater told you about it, you can either break up or work through it but adding more hurt to the pot is never a good thing.
The other thing is HOW he did it, he asked " don't you want to see who would make ayano have an affair?" and the vagueness and all that.
Even Kaede commented that he was not acting like himself (and ayano too for that matter), so I think something is changing, and when both of them move to an environment that is entirely supportive of him( the mother-in-law's house) I think more changes will happen to him, he will feel entitled to whatever action he takes. But that is just my guess on how things usually happen when a situation like that is presented.
Not saying I blame him, that kind of betrayal can make you act erratically and make you do things you wouldn't or that you would regret later, but still not cool.
Every chapter of this breathtakingly rendered slow-motion trainwreck leaves me needing more. This was definitely not a virtuous, or even smart, move by the husband, but you have to figure...he is probably desperate to talk about this to somebody, and - in typical male fashion - if he has any other male friends, he would probably not be comfortable admitting to any of them that his wife cheated on him, let alone with a woman.
And something else: he probably expects his sister-in-law to relish having something "over" a family member and would turn on Aya, because that's what would happen in HIS family. It doesn't occur to him that, push come to shove, she'll side with supporting her sister.
Why does everybody think the husband is a bad guy? Honestly, though, he seems like the most decent person out of the three. He loves Ayano and wants her to be happy, he's always talked to her and asked her what she wants, then Ayano fucked up bad and he's even trying to cope with it somehow. He hasn't given me one reason to dislike him.
what he did this chapter was pretty shitty I think, if ayano wanted to talk with her sister she would, and he knew that she didn't say anything to Kaede, he went as far as being all cryptic and sending her to the bar for shock value, if he just wanted to talk to someone he would have been streightforward with Kaede and just tell her what it was. Maybe he didn't act sooner because he couldn't believe or he was a bit of a coward to break up or get mad over it, but I think this first act of passive agressiveness from him won't be the last
I liked this a lot, poor Haru had her plans for the evening somewhat twarted by sleepy gf but ok.
will the continuation be translated too I wonder?
Well her trying to figure out whatever it's just a friendship or a actual love would be a very fitting thematically considering the series is called between Philia (love for friend) and Eros (love for partner).
Tfw the philia love Nikaido felt was for Jun and she mistook it for romantic feelings
It is a very fitting name not only for the relationship between Kurumi and Nika but their relations with Jun an Kyou
Jun is there to make sure things are serious I think, they are going out for over a month and that is probably the longest she ever had.
And he probably noticed a change in Nikaidou's behaviour too, since she stopped responding to his calls before the phone dropped in the bridge.
As for Nikaidou's feelings, she did mention that she gets hot when she kisses Kurumi so I think this muddled feelings drama is just a set up for she actually getting turned on and making a move on Kurumi since I think Kurumi is too much of a sweety to go on the offensive
I predict a lot of drama going when Ookuma's parents discover this, I think it would be interesting too, we usually have the super supportive parents going on or it's never adressed at all and I don't remember reading many stories that get into the family drama part of coming out (if you know some please link it to me please).