I will admit, I was wrong about there being intended coercion in this story. It does seem clear that the girl wasn't intending to force the woman to go out with her, only give her an answer. That order, however much of a subversion it may be, is still problematic. I see personal or household maids as archaic, and an echo of a time we need to move away from. A time when indentured servitude was commonplace. Orders are only given to people who are seen as lower in standing. Lower-ranking members of the military follow orders. So do slaves. Employees fulfill employers' requests that fall in line with their job description; they don't follow orders, and especially not arbitrary orders that have nothing to do with their employment. Again, I'll re-iterate that I have no problem with people liking this. It still rubs myself and several other people the wrong way. Passive-aggressive remarks or being told to "get over it" only serves as an attack.