Same with gloves. I'm not going to put on rubber gloves every time I'm about to finger my girlfriend. I wanna get her off, not perform a gyn exam on her. /rolls eyes/ I mean, sure. Safe sex is important and all, even if you can't get pregnant. But I believe the safest you can actually get even without ridiculous safe sex methods is to simply be strict with your personal hygiene and go see a gynecologist on a regular basis just to really be on the safe side. I've done it that way ever since I started having sex and my south regions have remained perfectly healthy ever since.
omg, thank you :)
this useful ^-^
yeah, I thought it was ridiculous too... all those sites telling you to do that...
whisper I've never been to a gynecologist... >.> I'm really scared... well.. I don't have any reason to f-for the moment... well you could argue you always do have a reason >.> but lets not do that ^-^''''''''''
I agree with dofudofu and Lin, so I won't add anything else about safe sex. About the gynecologist, it's okay to be hesitant; I mean, the whole idea of spreading you legs open so that one stranger exams you is weird. But there's really no need to be scared. Understand that no decent gynecologist would force an examination on you. When I was in my gynecology stay, there were many appointments with younger women that I only talked to them and gave orientations about sexual education and health in general. That's actually a good start to gain some trust in a doctor.
And about your personal stuff. I think I'm not the best person to talk about it, but if I do come up with something, I will tell you.
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