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vanirra posted:

Wait, is she 8'2"? Holy frack.

No offense, but did you pay attention to what you read? Cause really, I don't know how you made this confusion, but she said 8'2" in height and three paces of width and depth, she was more than obviously talking about the size of the elevator and that girls who enter it are are her prey, she was basically describing her territory, or her hunting area, not sure how to call it.

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Murcielago discussion 27 Apr 08:52
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No. Taken independently, any one trait can of course be found in men and women, we're a big rainbow. I never said she couldn't or shouldn't be any of the things that she is. But the more things that stack up away from relatable behaviors/traits for women, the less relevant it becomes outside of sexual characteristics that she is a woman. This isn't an argument I'm making, I'm just referencing a common feminist criticism of entertainment media.

Sorry but that's irrelevant, a character don't need to be relatable, much less relatable for their gender, people are more than their genders you know, so we can relate with a character independent of their gender.

Kuroko has no real-life analogue. If any of you know someone like Kuroko... um... run?

Wrong, Kuroko has lot's of real life analogue, because she's not just a serial killer, she's not that much one-dimensional that her only characteristic is being a murderer, not to mention that, it's completely irrelevant to her sexuality, she's one of the rare cases where being a lesbian and a psycho are separate, she's not a psycho lesbian, she's not psycho for being a lesbian or lesbian for being a psycho, so we can easily find real life lesbians that are like her, not to mention that, the manga more than showed us that being a serial killer is just one of her traits and there's a lot more in her than just that.

"Flirting" is a very generous way of characterizing how Kuroko acts toward women. And of course she's not the first character to act that way - that's why there's a whole body of thought around the ways that women are characterized in male-oriented movies/tv/comics.

I used Haruka from Sailor Moon as example, the only difference she have with Kuroko in how she acts is that she doesn't sleep around with other girls, besides that she's actually even more masculine than Kuroko, so much that in the manga she was called more than one time as being Michiru boyfriend, and Sailor Moon is obviously female-oriented, and again by your logic, she would be nothing more than a man with boobs, which is pretty offensive as there's a lot of lesbians in real life that act the same way or worse than Kuroko and Haruka.

No one's saying she "is a man," and it has nothing to do with being masculine or butch, it's about the author either not being able to write women very well, or choosing a rather pandering approach to writing a woman. I'm not sure it matters as more than an intellectual exercise here - it's not that she should be a man or that it's bad that she's a woman, just that when you examine it it's not really relevant to the story.

I completely disagree, the manga is full of female characters, way more than male and they're more fleshed out too, in my opinion they're all are well written, also, this of being a man or woman is not relevant for the story, I do agree to a certain extent as that is true for a good part of fiction, a lot of characters and their love interest, if we inverted their genders would not change much of the story, but Kuroko in my opinion was clearly made to be female, just because she don't act in a more cliche or "conventional" way most woman are portrayed in fiction that doesn't make her any less female or change the fact that the story was made with a female protagonist in mind.

Again, it's not about whether it's bad or good. The author is free to create whatever kind of character he wants, and if in his story he wants to write about a 6'3" I-cup woman who has remorselessly killed hundreds of people, is utterly emotionless and unflappable in every circumstance, and perceives all beautiful women as sex objects to be lusted after and conquered... well, that's his right. Is that character even remotely realistic? No. I don't personally care, I like the story anyway, it is viscerally satisfying to some very base instincts and is a fun change of pace from standard yuri tropes.

Sorry but the story also showed a lot that she's not emotionless, as for being unflappable, that is realistic, a lot of people that have experience with combat, life threatening or stressful situations are capable to be like that, as for seeing woman or man as lust object to be conquered, again, that is realistic to a certain extent, there's a lot of people who have that midnset, both man and woman, straight and gay, but Kuroko also made clear that is not just for sex and that she do loves woman that much, her relationship with the female characters made that clear, and she has a girlfriend, which is rare since most people with this mentallity she people as nothing more than object, but we know that she do loves Chiyo, as for her looks, this is a manga, it's obvious she and other characters will be beautiful, it's not uncommon at all for mangas to have inhumanly beautiful characters.

Some said that if she was a man only the Virginal Rose arc would be different, I completely disagree with that, if she was a man she would not be so fun, funny, and goofy as she is, all she do, her reactions, the way she acts, everything, would not be as funny or as interesting if she was a man, not to mention that very rarely a male character is like that, when they're a killer like Kuroko they're pretty much always cool and stoic, use sarcasm, or other types of actions to be funny, a good example is Alucard, he's not that much different from Kuroko except for the fact that she tries to sleep with lots of woman and is goofy, if she was also a man she would not be full of things to give to girls, one of them being the dildo she used to destroy that camera, it would not be a knife if she was a man cause she don't walk around armed.

Also, in case some of you didn't notice, the mangaka is a woman, so you can't really use much the argument that they don't know how woman are, since you know, the author is one.

For me it's pretty clear that all this whining is biased opinions because of double standards, the way Kuruko is badass and fight, it's not uncommon in manga for woman to be that badass and violent, you can't really compare to real life, as how she acts toward woman, not only what some of you say is sexist but is also machist, because it's basic double standard that it's normal for man be violent and so real woman are not, or that it's normal and sometimes even expected that some man will try to sleep with countless girls and are even praised for doing that sometimes, but if a woman do that, not only she's not seeing as being a "real woman", but she's also seeing as a slut or whore and as bein easy to get, but there is a lot of straight and lesbian woman who flirt and sleep around a lot, so I don't see what's the problem with Kuroko being like that.

One last thing, as for how woman is portrayed in male-oriented media, I don't think it apply to Murcielago, because most mangas that are male-oriented not only don't use female as main character, it's always a guy getting all the girls, they're also full of fanservice, but not only Murcielago is not really a harem, but it barely has fanservice, it's even being some time since we saw Kuroko having sex, now if you want manga obviously made to pander guys, go read Sekirei, not only the girls are nothing special, it's full of fanservice, and something that most people don't know, it's made by a woman, Bayonetta suffered the same thing, how a lot said it can only be made by a man, but her character design is also made by a woman.

last edited at Apr 27, 2016 9:04AM

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WDTFS fans - off topic 27 Apr 08:50
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Lin
Good afternoon~~, though her is still morning, let's see if at least you reply me, cause my last message was ignored by, well, everyone... (>_>)

Why was it a rough day? Did Su post in the thread? I think I saw her username as the last post in the forum main page sometimes, how is she doing?

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WDTFS fans - off topic 27 Apr 08:35
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dofudofu
So kanojo don't like anime and manga? Anything else that you likes that she loathes? And why she hates her own sister?

And finally going to marry? What made you change your mind? Already planned how you'e going to give her the ring? And nice that you're friend with your ex, that's unforntunately not much common, for various reasons...

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WDTFS fans - off topic 26 Apr 18:43
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Hey girls, how everyone doing?

And did Su came back? I didn't read the new posts, but I have the impression sometimes I saw her username as the last post in the thread.

And something that came to mind some days ago, I'm the only guy here? And just you all know, you don't need to treat me like a guy, call me dude and or things like that, you can think of me as one of the girls, actually, I prefer to be seen as one of the girls... (T^T)

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Chikara
That left hand analogy is bullshit, because sexuality doen't work like that, I think your problem is that you're mixing sexuality with sexual identity, we can learn different sexual identities, it can change, we can choose it, but that is impossible with sexuality, why I'm so sure of that? One reason, because countless of gays in the past and some still today, tried or try with all their strength to have relationship with the opposite sex, feel attracted to them, some are even able to have one that can last decades and even have children, but all end up one day admiting that it was all a lie and they lived in denial, you can't learn to feel attracted to the other gender, you either is already born with that possibility and discovers it later, or you're never going to feel attracted to the other gender, if you still want to believe it is possible to learn to feel attracted to the other gender, well, that's your choice then, but don't come preaching about how we're limiting ourselves, cause everything points to the fact that what you believe is wrong, and that no, we can't "learn" to feel attracted to the other gender and that sexuality don't change, at best we just discover we also feel attracted to the other gender.

Also, by your logic asexuals don't exist and they're just someone who need to "learn" to feel attracted to others, which is obviously not true either.

last edited at Apr 26, 2016 6:29PM

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Murcielago discussion 26 Apr 18:07
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I think the people who are saying that if Kuroko was a man everything would be the same is opening the doors for very unfortunate implications.

So, based on what some of you say because of how Kuroko acts, does that mean we should see butch lesbians as man then? Because in case some of you didn't notice yet, Kuroko is basically a butch lesbian, and like a lot of them she acts somewhat masculine, but she's still pretty feminine, but a lot of real life butch lesbians not only act like a man or at least masculine, but also look like a man or androgynous, so by your guys logic, should we assume that if their girlfriends had a relationship with a man it would be the exact same thing because the butch doesn't "act like a woman"?

Cause really guys, those comments sound more and more really sexist, which is funny because Kuroko is not the first lesbian in manga to act like that, although not as extreme because she didn't try to sleep with all the girls she met, Haruka from Sailor Moon was basically like Kuroko, she flirted with a lot of girls, she not only dressed masculine sometimes, but people even thought she was a man sometimes, so the fact that she was Sailor Uranus aside, should we say that if she was a man it would be all the same thing?

Like I said, really unfortunate implications your guys posts are giving...

last edited at Apr 26, 2016 6:10PM

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Akira_YL and dofudofu
Actually yes and no, for some woman it does feel good when the penis or object touch their cervix, but there's a few important details to take in account, first of all and maybe the most obvious is the size, from what I know for any woman something too big will be at least unconfortable enough that they won't feel much pleasure, if they feel any at all, but even if it is something of the right size there's another really important detail, the woman who likes it says that it feels good when their cervix is touched, from what I know for any woman something slamming their cervix, especially with too much force, will just hurt, especially if it's constant like during sex, if you search about it there's even some sex positions that help to make it easier to touch their cervix and also feel better for them, but even so most woman don't feel pleasure when their cervix is touched either because the penis or object is too big or they don't do it properly, so even though it is indeed possible I would say that it's a minority who are able to enjoy when their cervix is touched in any way and most woman will probably never feel pleasure from it.

In the case of this doujin it's probably one of the most realistic depiction of cervix being touched during sex that I ever saw, because pretty much all hentai you're going to see the penis or object is too big to fit any woman and or they're shoved inside them with all possible force, which in real life would pretty much hurt like hell as if the woman was being ripped apart, and not even to mention when they penetrate their cervix, which if happened in real life would be something really serious, same thing when it involves prolapse which is another really serious thing.

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sia ue posted:

Who is the artist of that image? Kind of wanted to see more of them now.

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I have no idea who drew it. I found it on twitter. I want to find the artist too.

Found another one. ^^ I guess the artist must be on TeamBlonde.
https://s24.postimg.org/kfje2imzp/CfbzS3hW4AEaeGd.jpg

I've found it. The artist is Alina Vi (VIA). And she is really on TeamBlonde.

Oh you found the artist name, nice, hope they do more WDTFS art, if they do please post it too~~

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I do agree that personality is not a trait we're born with, but the inherent traits we're born with do affect our personalities and sexualitty is definitely one of them, there is definitely a lot of people who are 100% born straight or gay, what happens when a person "choose" or "change" their sexuality is that they're probably bisexual, pansexual or any other like those that can feel attracted to both genders and any gender identity, I said gender identity because in practice there's more than just man and woman as gender, but that's not the point now, the problem is that a lot of people "choose" to either see themselves as straight or gay even if they feel some attraction to the same or opposite sex, we don't know for sure what defines the sexuality we're born with, if it's just genetics or if there's something else beyond simple biology, but what is definitely without a doubt proven is that sexuality is not a personality trait and can't be changed, we just have the illusion that people change their sexualities, but in practice they either discover that they're not just straight or gay or that they finally accepted a part of them that they denied.

Now, why I say it's 100% proven that sexuality can't be changed? Well, I'll use one argument since it's pretty much the best and the only one necessary, it's kind of proven that personalities, habits, anything that is learned can be changed in various ways with time and the right method, one way is conditioning for example, but go search about changing people sexuality, every and all attempts to change someone sexuality not only never worked but they all cause harm to the person, all scientific community and any decent scientist, psychologist or someone of that area or just someone who study sexuality for some reason will agree that it can't be changed and deny any kind of treatment because all they do is make the patient situation worse, another important fact, virtually everyone, if not everyone who want to change their sexuality, they don't want to change because they want to be straight per se, but because they're from highly conservative and or religious familiy and they learned that being gay is completely wrong and a sin, go search anyone or any place that says that they can make you straight, they're all religious and nowadays almost all of them closed and admitted that you just can't change a person sexuality and some even gave public apologies because all they did was cause more suffering.

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WDTFS fans - off topic 19 Apr 15:47
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That sounded kind of pedoish for me for some reason, and I replied you before, guess you didn't notice it, not even Lin did...

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WDTFS fans - off topic 19 Apr 15:31
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Lin
I see, hope everything is alright : /

Here is 16:30, but boss might be back soon, so I might not be able to post again for some time.

mvl89
You don't need to call me dude, think of me as one of the girls, that goes for everyone... (T^T)

And I'm fine I guess, kind of down lately, that's why I didn't show up before, and because you girls were out of control and made 100 new pages, so I was not in the mood at all to catch up, pretty much doing nothing besides playing Lego Marvel Superheroes and Valkyria Chronicles, I need to play Starlight Vega, brought when it was on Kickstarter.

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WDTFS fans - off topic 19 Apr 15:24
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Hey girls, this thread is indeed strangely quiet, I was like, later I come to the thread and BAM, over 100 new pages, now almost no new posts... I even wonder if I should read all those new pages or not. (T^T)

How everyone doing? I'm at work right now, boss is not here~~ 8D

Lin
How is Su doing?

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WDTFS fans - off topic 14 Apr 05:41
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Lin
Forgot to ask, but why you thought I was a woman? Is it the way I talk or what? I want others opinion too. xD

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WDTFS fans - off topic 14 Apr 05:39
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dofudofu

Yeah I meant social expectations that are a result of sexism. Lol I'm pretty sure they had some other options, but most of which were frowned upon by a lot of people.

Yeah they probably had others, life in the past sucked for everyone, of course for white straight male it was cool compared to the others, but if you was a woman, black or homosexual you was pretty much fucked.

Ah yeah sorry wasn't sure if you'd read before but I did mention it. I was at a friend's bachelorette party (kanojo wasn't there), and so it was a big group of women getting drunk and clubbing (typical stuff for bachelorette parties here). We got back to the hotel and one of the bride's friends that I was roomed with came into my bed and was being... aggressively inappropriate... verbally telling her off wasn't working and it ended with me punching her in the face and leaving the room. Needless to say it's going to be an awkward seeing her at the wedding, and kanojo's going to be there with me, who was in an absolutely foul mood about the whole thing. I imagine it'll be easier for her to get over it once my hand gets better.

By aggressively inappropriate you mean she was putting the moves on you? And like, you really did punch her? For real? Damn girl you're hardcore, any danger of kanojo hitting that bitch more? xD

What is with you and collars lol? I have no interest in putting on a collar. Kanojo usually tops in the bedroom, but I wouldn't say she has the more dominant personality; maybe just a bit fussier. I don't know if I really gave marriage a serious thought before all this stuff with kanojo happened, so it's sort of good that it happened. It's not like we hadn't talked about the things we'd want in the future, but I guess part of me was still being a kid about it and feeling like marriage was something far away. It's the sort of thing I'd want to talk to my dad about, but the two of us are never really great about the phone and I haven't visited home since everything happened. I talk to my mom often but she was really upset that I didn't say yes to kanojo the first time so now it's sort of an unpleasant topic to bring up with her.

No idea, guess I'm bad dog looking for a owner, or maybe a cat, there's just something in them that I can't help but want someone to put one in me... I mean, why you won't like a nice collar? xD

It doesn't really matter that much if she's not dominant, it's more for the fact that you're a really big slutty slutty bottom, oh well, you're the one losing by not appreciating a nice collar~~, I think we all have a part of us that always see marriage as something for the distant future, maybe it's a good idea to visit your parents and talk about it? And I guess it's nice that your mother got upset about it? Cause it sure shows that she really think you two should be together, it's in those small details that you see they really accept you I guess, did your father say anything about you not accepting it?

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WDTFS fans - off topic 14 Apr 05:30
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Hey Lin. good morning, it's actually morning here too, 06:30 as I write, what time is there? Where are you from actually?

You don't need to feel sorry for anything, I believe we all understand it.

As for the support and advice, any time you need it you just need to call for us~~, at least I'm here to help if I can, not sure what more to say, didn't sleep yet so not thinking very well, but there is something I want to say, technically ask, who is Reeba?

And yeah I'm a guy, you thought I was a woman? Cause it's pretty obvious by my name if you know anything about latin america, technically my name is Thiago, how to explain, Thiaguinho would be the same as someone named John being called Little John.

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WDTFS fans - off topic 14 Apr 05:01
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Lol this gave me a good chuckle.

Haha, well, I could have used some other word like hikkikomori for example, but it wouldn't sound as funny.

Yeah I meant that among women, straight or otherwise, dominant personalities are rare, whether it's an evolutionary thing or a result of social expectations. I think the vast majority of fragile male egos are a result of sexism. Femininity is so demonized around most male circles; it's really unhealthy. Sexism is bad for men and women.

I think that it's more because of social expectations and sexism, cause althogh it might look as if it was always like this, but it's been few years since woman got their rights, few decades ago woman didn't have much choice besides marry and have children, go to a convent, or live as single and become a crazy cat lady, did they have any other option? But I agree that most of male small ego is from sexism too, really, if we didn't have so many people of both genders who have sexist mentallity things would probably be a lot better by now.

You're a bottom, Harry.

Things have been really good. It's not like we've been back together for that long, but we're definitely happier with each other than apart. She was really upset about what happened over the weekend, but maybe at least for my sake she's not griping about it to me anymore. We've talked a lot and it's really obvious the marriage bug is still in her, so I don't think there's anything I can do to quell that. It's probably on me to propose at this point lol, so I think I'll have to do some plotting eventually.

What happened in the weekend? If you talked about this I didn't read yet, I still have some pages from the last few days to catch up, and if she's not saying anything on that must be because she's too happy with you two together again and don't want to ruin the moment, as for the marriage, you don't want to marry any time soon? Instead of proposing, what you could plot is a romantic day, ending with you giving her a collar wih her name on it, but that she would put it on you, just to show that you belongs to her, gosh I'm so romantic. xD

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WDTFS fans - off topic 14 Apr 04:31
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If this situation is common or not I have no idea since I don't have much contact with people.

Well, all lesbians I know are from Dynasty or a few artists/mangaka, so I don't know much about how lesbian relationship dynamics work in real life, if I had social life maybe I would know better by meeting people, but I'm pretty much a basement dweller except for the fact that I have a job and no basement, I don't even know how straight relationships really work, probably going to die forever alone without having done nothing with anyone, not that this is a bad thing, I am a being of solitude after all, so it don't really bother me much that I have no social life or real life friends, never met with school friends again, rarely talk with them using other means, not that I had much friends anyway, so I guess I have more acquaintances than friends.

As for dominant woman in personality and relationship, it's not even just lesbian, even for straight woman that is rare, they might look like that but a lot turn more passive later, though maybe it's probably in part because most guys don't know how to deal with dominant woman and so they try too please them? After all man are pretty weak sometimes, a lot, probably most actually, have small egos that can easily be hurt by a more masculine woman, especially if they can do something better than them, even more if it's in physical activities, not a problem for me though, I sure do love myself a strong-willed and dominant woman, being masculine or not either way is fine, maybe one day I'll find one if I ever have a life. (T^T)

This talk made me remember something I always had some interest in, using a collar, but it's not the same if not given by the person I love... Is it just me or that sounded like, really masochist? Guess you can't be more submissive after wanting a collar? xD

And dofudofu, how are things with kanojo? Everything is fine since you two made up?

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WDTFS fans - off topic 14 Apr 04:05
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Well, if something happened with a guy I'm not sure I would mind, I care more about feelings, but that's easier said than done, cause I do love a pretty lady, guys bodies not so much, most are kind of ugly, so instead of pan I'm probably more to straight as a man and lesbian if I was a woman, or I would go full in slut mode and fuck pretty much anyone who I found attractive if I was a woman, hard to say how I really would be as a woman, I'm not even much sure how I am as a man, if I even really see myself as a man except for the fact that my body is male, I'm probably more to a woman in mind, I guess I don't really care that much, I guess either way is fine, but I definitely would have prefered to have been born a woman. (T^T)

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WDTFS fans - off topic 14 Apr 03:55
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Well, not sure about that, I would definitely dress like Mel and always have a serious face, and also tell any guy to fuck off too, so it would be pretty obvious what kind of girl I was, at least until a girl hit on me, then there comes my real nature as a slutty slutty bottom like you would say.

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WDTFS fans - off topic 14 Apr 03:49
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Though like I said before, I'm probably more like Seju, because of the Eternal Bottom thing and passive nature. xD

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WDTFS fans - off topic 14 Apr 03:48
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I didn't say it is, but it sure would help a lot. xp

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WDTFS fans - off topic 14 Apr 03:47
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If I had her looks I would too. xD

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WDTFS fans - off topic 14 Apr 03:45
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dofudofu
Haha, when this is over, a lot of people will have crumbled because of something, I bet it. xp

And why you think Mel is my opposite? xD

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WDTFS fans - off topic 14 Apr 03:42
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Sure, just delete my facebook link from your post, I just said to not quote it... (>_<)