Faylicia
You should find out and settle on what you really like in a girl if you want to get lucky. Doing embarrassing shits are pretty common when you're not used to it. But you'll be fine.

GraciousLlama
Yea, maybe we really need to attend one of the flirting classes. It would be so bad if we miss another hot chance like that in the future. Lol

dofudofu
I did try to flirt back when I thought they're flirting with me. But with guys tho. Just going with the flow and shit like that, giving hints or tones suggestively. And like wow. They took the bait but then I'm like, no man, back off.
Flirting with girls, I'm so bad at it. No luck. Sigh

GraciousLlama

Lol I'm the you, I need space. I can't handle the too clingy type of people, it just makes me pull away from them. And yeah I would have been so irritated if someone constantly tried to make me jealous or was always getting jealous.

When it comes to relationship, I can't stand clingy people too. I don't mind my friends getting all clingy to me. But if I date someone getting all clingy & possessive & annoyingly trying to make me jealous all the time ?? I'll say bye-bye without having any second thoughts. Or maybe I'll do if the sex was good. Lol

And you know what sometimes a girl has a cute butt and you have to look at it because it would be rude not to XD hahaha

It would be rude for that fine ass not to be stared at. XD

I totally suck at the flirting thing, and I suck at realizing someone was flirting with me XD well except guys because they can be very obvious with flirting lol

You'll just realize later when you get home that that person was trying to flirt with you and you got no clue at that moment lol. I sometimes hate myself for being so dense when I shouldn't have to.
And yes, guys are so obvious with flirting doing all those lame ass moves xD

Yeah see I don't mind my friends getting clingy because they just do that all the time, but I can't have someone I'm dating getting all clingy. The sex would have to be very good hahaha
I've definitely gotten home later and realized a girl was flirting with me, then I kick myself for not noticing sooner lol

Saaaaame~~~
Imma be like: how did I miss that ?? How ??
Lol. Maybe we need more practice xD

I edited my comment posted the pirate girls I made yesterday, just so that you know! ^///^''
hmm... oh? I don't always realize when guys 'flirt' because they don't actually flirt they just try to 'befriend' me and I hate that! just be direct, gosh! saves both people trouble >.>
Also, I never had any gi- I mean... well, I might as well say it... I never had any girl flirt with me... um, maybe one in the SU one time... when there was an lgbt event, she asked me why I was there with a suggestive tone and she was asking me stuff but I think she was just being friendly? plus she seemed really girly so like... >.> I don't know >.<

Just seems like you're not around a lot of gay people. Aren't you in London? Gay people everywhere I thought lol.

I'm not! >.< I'm in a small city near London but England is so expensive T_T so going to London is not so cheap... though cheaper if I get that 30 pound student card -.-

You need to spread yourself a little bit more than what you're doing. Even if you sit there looking at people in one of those lgbt event if you don't give a hint or whatever, then they'll think you're straight as a barbie. Lol

Faylicia Yeah Marimite's pretty much the gem of the onee-sama category

KittoKatto I had one that told me I wasn't allowed to meet up with other women without her. I was just like yeah this isn't going to work out lol...

No way! Oh my god. That's a big fat no. Not gonna work. Lol what a crazy girl xD

Lol inexperienced and possessive; I was just like go unto the world and figure this out with someone else. Was worth a dabble though. Way cute. Kanojo and I are more like:
Me: The waitress is cute. Can I eat her?
Kanojo: Yeah she is and only if you give me some of that donut.

Ohh~~
What an easy going life with kanojo there. Doesn't she get jealous ever ??

GraciousLlama

Lol I'm the you, I need space. I can't handle the too clingy type of people, it just makes me pull away from them. And yeah I would have been so irritated if someone constantly tried to make me jealous or was always getting jealous.

When it comes to relationship, I can't stand clingy people too. I don't mind my friends getting all clingy to me. But if I date someone getting all clingy & possessive & annoyingly trying to make me jealous all the time ?? I'll say bye-bye without having any second thoughts. Or maybe I'll do if the sex was good. Lol

And you know what sometimes a girl has a cute butt and you have to look at it because it would be rude not to XD hahaha

It would be rude for that fine ass not to be stared at. XD

I totally suck at the flirting thing, and I suck at realizing someone was flirting with me XD well except guys because they can be very obvious with flirting lol

You'll just realize later when you get home that that person was trying to flirt with you and you got no clue at that moment lol. I sometimes hate myself for being so dense when I shouldn't have to.
And yes, guys are so obvious with flirting doing all those lame ass moves xD

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Faylicia Yeah Marimite's pretty much the gem of the onee-sama category

KittoKatto I had one that told me I wasn't allowed to meet up with other women without her. I was just like yeah this isn't going to work out lol...

No way! Oh my god. That's a big fat no. Not gonna work. Lol what a crazy girl xD

Basically, jealousy is a display of a lack of trust. And that's something I can't have in a committed relationship.

high fives KittoKatto v.v

Mostly agree with u, but up to certain stage, jealousy is cute..

Jealousy is cute yea. Sometimes; not everyday tho. But the thing is, my ex gf loved to make me jealous all the time and I'm like meh, whatever to her. And then she ends up the one getting jealous instead. I'm like, wtf did I do again ?? Lol. Every fucking time we go out. She's like that. And it gets harder and harder.
I'm a person that gets easily suffocated when someone is holding on to me real tight. If you want me to stay, give me my own space. Otherwise, go away. Shoooo~~
Haha

what did you do to make her jealous? O_O like if you're out together what would she be jealous about? I mean unless you're staring at some girl's butt all the time... why would she?!

I'm no-- ok, yea, I do stare at some girl's ass but only when she makes a trip to the washroom. But when I know her eyes are on me, I don't. I just talk to both guys and girls, maybe meet&greet when some friends bring their "friends". But that's about it. I dunno why she gets jealous. I don't ever remember myself getting touchy feely with other people aside from her. Crazy ex. So possessive. Ugh

yeah sounds crazy... >.< I hope you find a better one soon :)

Lol. I feel traumatized tho considering it's been almost 2 years since we broke up. And I doubt I could find anyone soon. Coz I don't make the first move at all. I'm waaaaay too lame at flirting. Haha

Basically, jealousy is a display of a lack of trust. And that's something I can't have in a committed relationship.

high fives KittoKatto v.v

Mostly agree with u, but up to certain stage, jealousy is cute..

Jealousy is cute yea. Sometimes; not everyday tho. But the thing is, my ex gf loved to make me jealous all the time and I'm like meh, whatever to her. And then she ends up the one getting jealous instead. I'm like, wtf did I do again ?? Lol. Every fucking time we go out. She's like that. And it gets harder and harder.
I'm a person that gets easily suffocated when someone is holding on to me real tight. If you want me to stay, give me my own space. Otherwise, go away. Shoooo~~
Haha

what did you do to make her jealous? O_O like if you're out together what would she be jealous about? I mean unless you're staring at some girl's butt all the time... why would she?!

I'm no-- ok, yea, I do stare at some girl's ass but only when she makes a trip to the washroom. But when I know her eyes are on me, I don't. I just talk to both guys and girls, maybe meet&greet when some friends bring their "friends". But that's about it. I dunno why she gets jealous. I don't ever remember myself getting touchy feely with other people aside from her. Crazy ex. So possessive. Ugh

Basically, jealousy is a display of a lack of trust. And that's something I can't have in a committed relationship.

high fives KittoKatto v.v

Mostly agree with u, but up to certain stage, jealousy is cute..

Jealousy is cute yea. Sometimes; not everyday tho. But the thing is, my ex gf loved to make me jealous all the time and I'm like meh, whatever to her. And then she ends up the one getting jealous instead. I'm like, wtf did I do again ?? Lol. Every fucking time we go out. She's like that. And it gets harder and harder.
I'm a person that gets easily suffocated when someone is holding on to me real tight. If you want me to stay, give me my own space. Otherwise, go away. Shoooo~~
Haha

It only shows that the person really loves you a lot.

Is it really a display of love or a display of possessiveness? Cause those are two different things and people tend to mix them up. Personally, I'm not the least bit jealous and I hate when my partners are. I wouldn't be with them if I didn't love them and I hate when that gets questioned because of stupid stuff like getting a little flirty with someone else just for the funsies. I'm not anybody's possession. If me having fun with someone else annoys you despite me showing you and telling you all the time that yes, I do love you, then here's the solution for your problem: leave. There. v.v

Very well said. Exactly what I wanted to say.

Really? I think jealousy is cute as long as no violence involved. It only shows that the person really loves you a lot.

It's not cute when that person gets jealous a lot even in the simplest thing there is. Or for the things that she shouldn't be jealous of. At least for me.

Good morning

Those who have a significant other, does your partner get angry if you chat with girls here?

why would she? it's not like she's flirting with anyone O_O

Exactly. And we don't want any wars to happen on the other side of the screen. Lol

Imma go to bed too. Been awake for more than 12hrs now. I need to rest. Haha
Goodnight~~
Til tomorrow again~~

Hm? what do you mean by that? '-' I don't really wanna sleep with some random person I find attractive tbh... >.> it just seems kind of gross/scary... just personally...

Lol. Of course it's always different for every person. That was just my personal opinion.

Rainy365
Definitely not a morning person. But my job requires me to be in at work at 8 in the morning soo I don't have any choice but to wake up 5 or 6 in the morning.

Not a morning person because you're a vampire at night,
or although you skipped yr vampire activities, you're still not a morning person?

It's impossible for me to be a morning person. Unless I see some pancakes with choco syrup....(♡v♡)

Faylicia
But do you know exactly what you like in people ?? Like what you're interested in ?? Or you might wanna go around, hang out somewhere, be involved on something and then try to figure out what to do next.
Try doing something new at least every day.

Yes, I do know. There aren't many things to do here but I try to do when there is an opportunity but it's not always possible either because I'm busy or my friends are :/ I always try to do new things but I'll have to putt them off for the month because I'm supposed to be working... I need to do some work now too but I don't feel so ok, I feel a bit tired and malnourished and emotional and... >.> yes... I'm on my period... >.> I don't know if that has anything to do with it... maybe partly...

Maybe partly yea.
Just do something or anything that even you alone can do. It's never too late to do something new even if it's simple. Meeting new people or having a random chat with people would be fine too.
As for dating, are you sure you're gay tho ?? If so, does any of your friend know ?? If not, at least let one of them know. They might hook you up with some amazing girl ;)
You're in college, sleeping with them & dating seriously has a big difference. Just enjoy life. Make the most of it. :>

Faylicia
But do you know exactly what you like in people ?? Like what you're interested in ?? Or you might wanna go around, hang out somewhere, be involved on something and then try to figure out what to do next.
Try doing something new at least every day.

GraciousLlama
Oh, yea I have someone like that back home too. He's basically a grandpa to us but we have to call him uncle. He hangs out at home at 6 in the morning and he has such a loud mouth and he annoys the shit out of me. I'd be forced to go out of bed instead of sleeping in. Ugh

Rainy365
Definitely not a morning person. But my job requires me to be in at work at 8 in the morning soo I don't have any choice but to wake up 5 or 6 in the morning.

Faylicia
Sleep is for the weak.
You're gonna miss out on all the fun again. XD

KitKat
See I need to have my coffee every morning lol but if it's really late at night and I'm with friends, I don't get cranky tired I just get hyper and what my friends call "drunk tired"

Yea. Saaame~~
It's only in the morning that I'm cranky. But not at night. I'm basically a vampire. XD

Faylicia
The way you described how you felt dizzy with an upset stomach and all, I'd say you're pretty drunk. Just bc you know what you're doing still doesn't mean you're not drunk. You're basically crawling back to your bed. Lol

As for my case, I didn't say yes. Didn't say no either. I was too drunk to say anything. But I could still fight back a bit that night. It's all good. I'm fine. Still friends with them I think. But I'm trying to avoid them.

I'm more of a vodka or gin type of girl. Not beer or wine.

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Rainy365
Looool. This is fun XD

Faylicia
Oh yea~
I remember you're a 100% TeamBlonde too. Yesh! We got 4 people on board now xD

GraciousLlama
I'd be cranky if I'm sleep deprived and I don't get to drink coffee as soon as I wake up. :>

Rainy365

I'll snap yr picture and upload it to my facebook... kekekeke

Make sure we are aaaaall pretty when you snap a picture. But of course, make sure you take a perfect shot when someone trips or falls, k ??
;>

McNugget and love butt ?? Wow.
What's the story behind that ?? XD

Lol well the McNugget one was because I am shorter than that friend and then the love butt one was something from a drunken night that I hardly remember XD haha but she has called me that for awhile now so I'm thinking its here to stay

And I know I should have gone with my friends but my boss wouldn't allow it because we have a big meeting this week with her boss so I had to be there

Your boss is such a killjoy. Damn.

Love butt thingy, I'm pretty sure it had to do something with butts when you got drunk. Lol
So you're one of the type who doesn't remember that much when drunk af. Haha

But getting wasted and all is fun when you don't remember a thing. The opposite is quite embarrassing tho XD

Hahaha yes, especially since I hardly get like knock out drunk. I'm usually always this really happy hyper adventurous drunk :P

Oh yea ?? Like loud hyper and jolly ?? We'll get along with that !! XD

McNugget and love butt ?? Wow.
What's the story behind that ?? XD

Lol well the McNugget one was because I am shorter than that friend and then the love butt one was something from a drunken night that I hardly remember XD haha but she has called me that for awhile now so I'm thinking its here to stay

And I know I should have gone with my friends but my boss wouldn't allow it because we have a big meeting this week with her boss so I had to be there

Your boss is such a killjoy. Damn.

Love butt thingy, I'm pretty sure it had to do something with butts when you got drunk. Lol
So you're one of the type who doesn't remember that much when drunk af. Haha

But getting wasted and all is fun when you don't remember a thing. The opposite is quite embarrassing tho XD