@trafi
I have friend who aren't like that and I don't think I am the weird one and that I'm being naive... am I ?
Well it depends on the culture and environment you grew up. Or maybe you just don't find those women attractive.
It has nothing to do with that, even with women that I find attractive, I'm not like that. Saying that men cheat when they see an attractive women because of their instinct is just accepting it as a reality. It's saying that it normal, it's how they are, nothing can be done about it. But it's not.
There are no such an instinct that make us uncontrollable, it is a choice to cheat and/or to be jerk. The same goes for women.
No one here is agreeing which cheating, we're merely exploring the phenomenon.
However I didn't met more men cheating for no real reason than women. I don't think women cheat differently than men. But I do understand why Evilnemesis would said that.
They do, it does increase with age. Why do 40s married men still go for one night stand and youngins while their counterpart go for long term affairs? Because they wisened up and want a more fulfulling relationship, they want better, they know they deserve better. This is what I mean when I say cheating differently, if you ask around or look some things up you'll find that I'm not lying. Like Nez said, it's not biological for the most part but it does not matter where the difference comes from only that it exists for the debate. Unless you want to "fix" the issue of course, which we obviously wont achieve here on the interwebz.
What I don't understand is why people make it a fact that men are bestial being who only follow their instinct... instinct that essentially says WOMEN!! HOT!! SEX!! x)
Because it's true! Err... wat?
The only thing I truly disagreed about is that instinct thing : men cheat more because of their instinct, because they can't resist or can resist less than women
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