dofudofu
I see, well, I think that first of all you need to confirm if she did see other people or not, now, I think you two should have talked more about it, I do agree that both is a little too much, but I guess she didn't want to talk much about it and decide to move by herself? You love her? Cause I'm assuming she's the type who likes to take action without talking with her partner because she believes they want the same, so if you don't talk with her very well that will only cause problems later, thinking about the future is not bad, but you must make it clear that you two need to do together, that both need to decide what to do, if she didn't find a new place already you should have tried to live together again, is her place better for you? Maybe you could move instead, if you want to continue the relationship you do have a good amount of options to make it work, you just need to make sure that the decisions can't be made all by her, unless you don't mind that most of the time, so maybe just tell her to ask you first to confirm if you agree or something like that.

Did any of what I said made sense? I mean, I do have some notion of relationships from various sources, same for how people tend to act since I like to observe others, but I never had a relationship so I might say something that is not useful...

Forgot to say, she reacted like that because she's probably very serious about the relationship and thought that was the logical conclusion, she probably didn't thought it was possible you would refuse at all, so she's probably more hurt about that than you imagine, now the question is if she will have a grudge because of that or not, because that can easily ruin the relationship, some people don't take well this kind of rejection.

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dofudofu
Well... I don't know much about relationship, but from what I know unless you give really good reasons and talk a lot about the issue, then you will have problems for not wanting to live together, that is almost always a really big deal...

But in those three months, did she do anything with other woman? Cause if she did, well, would it even be worth to go back? I mean, did you two agree on maybe seeing other people in this time or something like that?

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dofudofu
Did you see my yaoi suggestions? And why maybe ex-girlfriend? What happened? And didn't you say she was trying to get other woman? I remember you said something about her but not sure what it was.

mvl89
I don't know, it might be good for Seju to sleep with Nami, she has a lot of stress, maybe after some sex she wouldn't look so psycho anymore.

As for coming to Brazil that some talked about, I don't think it would be that expensive, because of the economy a lot of foreign currencies have more value than ours, dollar for example $1 is more or less 4 in our currency, so you would be able to do a lot with not much money.

Azai
I forgot to ask before, but did you notice that pages ago I talked about add me on facebook? I also told that if anyone else wanted they could too, but I was wondering if anyone noticed since this thread doesn't have brakes... (T^T)

Not sure if I'll reply about the other things you girls talked about, it was so long ago by now, that's what I get for sleeping. (T^T)

Azai
Can't help when it comes to things from Brazil, I don't go anywhere, don't care about the food, I would be a hikikomori if I didn't have a job.

Faylicia
I don't see much problem in that, since he's whining about it, tell him why you acted like that, and say that you is the one who didn't want to be friend with him anymore cause he doesn't understand you don't like how he acts with you, use this chance to get rid of him.

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Try 19 Days, Hinekure Chaser, Renai-rubi no Tadashii Furikata, Saiyaku Wa Boku O Suki Sugiru, Oko-sama Star, Love Stage!!, Kono Ore ga Omae Nanka Suki na Wakenai, Yamada to Shounen, Slow Starter (ICHIKAWA Kei), Ten Count, Ichi Ni no San!, Wakabaryou de, Kimi, Yamete Kudasai, Mabushii Desu, Hidoku Shinaide, Caste Heaven, Katekyo!, Koisuru Boukun, Yarichin Bitch Club, Omae wa Hitsuji, Datte Maou-sama wa Kare ga Kirai, Renai-rubi no Tadashii Furikata, Hana no Mizo Shiru, Recipe no Oujisama, Kouryaku Syndrome, Nar Kiss, Hana to Usagi, Gosan no Heart, Daiji na Koto na no de, Nido., Paradise View, Kimi Note, don't forget to see when was their last update, I might have mixed one that was dropped long ago.

Well, guess I gave enough, since we don't have that much of the really bad yaoi translated it can be a little hard to try to judge them only by the cover or art, some of those yaoi I already had a look long ago, but since I don't remember them very well I picked more just to be sure that at least I got some that are good, the ones I got are some with a good amount of view, but I remember that some really good yaoi have few views, so it would be a little hard to find them unless you looked at everything tagged as yaoi or shounen ai, I remember seeing in the last year some new yaoi being translated that looked pretty good, so it might be not as hard to find them if you see latest updates.

As for my top 3, even if I remembered or was reading yaoi lately I wouldn't be able to give a top 3, I really suck at making tops for anything, even yuri, there is some that I will consider better than the rest, but it tends to be a fair number, like over 10 or 20, if not more, but although I don't remember much I'm pretty sure that at least a few of the yaoi I got are good, I'm not sure which ones are them though, if I remembered I wouldn't give so many names.

Having goldfish memory sucks. (T^T)

Anyway, dofudofu and anyone else who have a look at those names, I hope that you find at least some of them good. o7

dofudofu
About the gay porn, why some lesbians watch it? I mean, where's the logic in that? Why would they have interest in watching man having sex if they like woman? Are they closeted bisexual or what? Cause I don't understand why they would want to watch something that they don't feel attracted to.

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Yeah it does seens like everyone suffered gender flip, creator included, I don't see any other reason for the different name besides that.

As for the good yaois, truth be told past few months I'm not reading much manga besides yuri, reading more the ones that are priority, and yuri was always what I liked the most, so I didn't read much yaoi, I don't know if I'll remember any in particular, but I do have some notion of some that are good, fortunately for us not much of the bad yaoi is translated, so you can actually find a good amount of yaou that is pretty decent, anyway, I'll have a look in a reader and see if I remember some of the ones that are better, I'll give their names in a few minutes.

Something I noticed about their yaoi version, from what I know this What Does The Wolf Says is made by Team Gaji themselves, but I noticed that they put Team Guji as their name on it, so does that mean that it's basically the image of an alternate universe where not only the girls of WDTFS are turned into man, but where Team Gaji is also turned into a man? At least I can't help but wonder if that is the reason for the different name, I do suspect that Team Gaji is a woman, so it would make sense that it's Guji because it would be a yaoi made by a man.

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Newp and dofudofu
Yeah, but not all yaoi, you know how in a lot of shoujo it's a plain dumb girl with a jerk abusive boyfriend that sometimes is even a rapist? A lot of yaoi is basically the same thing, the uke is even really androgynous and looks almost like a girl, so they're pretty much the same as those shoujo.

But a lot of yaoi are extremely good too, have that focus on their feelings and life like yuri, the reason it's common for a lot of yaoi to be bad is because they have a lot more mangas than yuri, and you know, only man can rape, a lot of people think woman can't rape or sexually abuse someone, so I won't be surprised if in japan that is even worse, of course yuri is not made just to make easy money like yaoi, most of the readers are straight woman, fujoshi, so a lot of the yaoi is not realistic at all, yuri don't have that, almost all of it is made by people who really love the genre itself and are made a lot of times by lesbians or bisexual woman, of course there is a lot of good male mangaka on it too, but in yaoi if you go see the bad ones are pretty fetishistic and not realistic at all, obviously made so straight woman can enjoy it, gay man apparently hate most yaoi because of that.

Anyway, a good portion of yaoi is bad, but if you give it a chance you can find a lot of yaoi that is as good as the best yuri we have, it's not hard to find them because the bad yaoi has the same feel of those bad shoujo with abusive jerk love interest, in the first chapter you can pretty much already see if it's the good or the bad yaoi, sometimes even the artstyle is already a good indication of what kind of yaoi it is, because in the good ones they have that more soft artstyle and more realistic characters, that even if the art is moe you can outright see that they're guys, while in most of the bad yaoi the seme is a super masculine guy with a really girl looking uke, when the art makes them pretty masculine the good yaoi have both characters looking like man, although some do have one or both characters pretty androgynous and are still good.

Well, hope I didn't forgot to say anything, I can probably easily find some that are good if any of you are interested, they say you can't judge a book by it's cover, unfortunately for yaoi a lot of times you can already know if they're good or bad just by it's cover, it's pretty sad actually...

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Newp
Yeah, they're not the only korean group that became characters in a webcomic, there's one that is based in guys and they're basically superheroes or something like that, and they're really the characters in it, it's not just their looks like in here, it seemed pretty lame xD

And I also deleted posts by accident before, I know how you feel.

As for them as male, knowing how a lot of yaois tend to go, bet it would have a lot of rape...

dofudofu
Haha, you quoted me right when I edited my post, the interesting thing is that this was made by Team Gaji themselves.

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Also found this, Whad Does The Wolf Say?

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Newp
Didn't know SNSD was also their name, you get different results with "SNSD what does the fox say", I found the one I mentioned too.

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dofudofu
Oh, I remember seeing something about them long ago, thanks.

Similar clothing? More like the same clothing.

Newp
Well, you don't expect that they will be exactly the same right? But I guess they really are based on Girls Generation, I remember seeing one with Nami too, it was posted in the thread long ago.

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Newp
Search on google "girls generation what does the fox say" and you're going to see what I meant, a few examples.

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dofudofu
Haha, your friend sure had a nice habit, hope she didn't outgrown it, being a long time since you two live in different cities? Any idea if she's still out there getting all the pretty girls in her way? Cause that sure is a good objective in life, she's probably very well know there by now.

Newp
Oh yeah, someone posted pic of that some time ago, Taeyeon and some other woman, I think all from the same group, are basically the girls from WDFTS, if we look some pages back in the thread you can find a picture with all of them.

Never heard of the womans you two talked about, found on google only Ruby Rose since you girls said all her name, but can't find the others...

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dofudofu
I see, so she's basically a real life Yurika but without interest in guys? Or she doesn't sleep with a bunch of girls like Yurika? Do you at least get some girls by being her friend? Like those fishes who eat the leftovers from when the sharks eat their preys?

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dofudofu
About your friend that get all the girls, let me guess, she's straight? She's basically real life Yurika?

Newp
You're welcome, I'm here to help. o7

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Newp
All you need to know is here http://dynasty-scans.com/forum/topics/5657-forum-post-formatting-basic-markdown-tutorial

dofudofu
Oh, okay, don't worry, it's only truly fun when everyone is here, and okay so I would:

Marry = Seju

Fuck = Nami

Kill = Redhead

Happy now? I would never do anything to Sumin and Sungji cause I want them together even if I'm on Team Pink.

Azai
I'm won't believe unless you add me on [facebook](I deleted the link, if someone want ask that I give it again)! Others can add me too, you never have enough friends to annoy is what I always say~~

As for cold, man how I hate to live in this hot country, I want to go to somewhere cold. (T^T)

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dofudofu
And what exactly happened? I didn't say to stop if that is what you think, and I can't break rules if I'm not playing.

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Azai
Eeeh, didn't thought someone here would be from Brazil too, where are you from exactly? I'm from RS, of course knowing my luck, as always you're going to be another person that lives far, even when they're from my country they life really fucking far... (T^T)

As for this little game, I don't care either way as long as I ended with Seju, not sure what say about this bottom and top discussion, all I can say is that this discussion sure got derailed.

KitKat101
I know how you feel, with time I learned and accepted that every cool people you're going to find always lives really fucking far.

Brazil, not sure if more is necessary.

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GraciousLlama
Eeeeeh, I don't see the problem, MILFs are okay too, from 5 to 50 all are fair game, it's what I always say.

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dofudofu
You sure about that? I'm almost 30, just more 3 years... Sometimes you guys make me feel so old. (T^T)

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